An Emotional Life- Divorce, Emotions, and Past Relationships- A Mini Vent By: Ethan

[golddustdrummer]

Originally Posted by Black_Moon

Could we possibly date? "Just sayin'".

we are going to have a date
it'll last two weeks

[vivfox]

Originally Posted by camchristo

IMO, the divorce part "of the thought process" was just your attempt to get people to think you were going to talk about something substantive just so you could yet again talk about why some girl doesn't like you and why you can't find anyone to love.

This insensitive comment to Ethan makes me wonder if you were the one who sent that nasty pm to DavidMN.

[Musicman408]

Originally Posted by vivfox

This insensitive comment to Ethan makes me wonder if you were the one who sent that nasty pm to DavidMN.

Thanks for standing up for me, but we should all just drop it. There is no need to fight over me.

[michelle2677]

no worries, ethan. i saw a 38 year old version of you today as a patient. he married, had a kid, cheated on his wife and remarried within the year. so love could be right around the corner for you. twice!

[Black_Moon]

Originally Posted by michelle2677

no worries, ethan. i saw a 38 year old version of you today as a patient. he married, had a kid, cheated on his wife and remarried within the year. so love could be right around the corner for you. twice!

Oh my God...

[BTFLCHLD]

a shred thread...lovely.

[mylittledemon]

Yep. No surprise as to who started.

[camchristo]

Originally Posted by vivfox

This insensitive comment to Ethan makes me wonder if you were the one who sent that nasty pm to DavidMN.

Come down off the cross already. Isn't it time for your 23rd date with Juan R.? I was discussing this with Ethan. No need for you to get involved, he doesn't need your protection. Go look back through all of the inane threads Ethan has started. Whenever they got heated, Ethan would pop in and say, "oh don't fight over me you all" and then abandon the thread. Par for the course.

[Musicman408]

Originally Posted by camchristo

Come down off the cross already. Isn't it time for your 23rd date with Juan R.? I was discussing this with Ethan. No need for you to get involved, he doesn't need your protection. Go look back through all of the inane threads Ethan has started. Whenever they got heated, Ethan would pop in and say, "oh don't fight over me you all" and then abandon the thread. Par for the course.

WEll yeah, because it isn't worth it to get into an argument over!

[vivfox]

Originally Posted by camchristo

Isn't it time for your 23rd date with Juan R.?

Now that's funny! It's time for my 13th date. I'll be calling him tomorrow.

[skcin]

Originally Posted by carrie721

that's because you're an asshole

You're mean.

Originally Posted by GODDESS6

ethan, rent "the breakfast club", you're getting all ally sheedy on us, by dumping your purse out then getting pissed when we comment~

Nice.

Originally Posted by Black_Moon

Ethan, this isn't therapy. I'm not being heartless or anything, but why share this with everyone, and then complain when you get people giving back critical comments? Surely this is something that you'd tell to your close friends, not a bunch of strangers over the internet.

I will be keeping this post for future cut & pastes. It applies to so many posts I've read here over the years, so I'm sure it will apply in the future.


Ethan wants to know why "veteran ledgies" didn't find this thread thought-provoking. He thinks it's a post of "substance" that will jump-start conversation here. Well, it's because nobody wants to read a long-assed story about you & your life without being asked to share something about theirs. It would have been different if you had posted that your parents are divorcing & it sucks, and you wanted to know what are other ledgie's experiences with divorce have been. But you never do that. Ever.

The reason you turn people off is that you never show any interest in any other members' threads, posts, lives. You frequently ask for "yours guys alls" advice & then never return to read it (or if you do, you don't bother to acknowledge that you've done so.) It's rude, and it's a waste of my (and many other posters') time to bother to read & respond to any your threads because it's obvious you don't WANT to know what yous guys all think.

I can't believe you're still here pulling the same ****. Seriously. Either you get off on baiting people into bitching at/about you (see, you got me again!) or you're ridiculously socially immature for your age with a touch of ADHD. You're either a mad genius or developmentally disabled. I still can't figure out which, so shame on me.

[Musicman408]

Originally Posted by skcin

You're mean.




Nice.



I will be keeping this post for future cut & pastes. It applies to so many posts I've read here over the years, so I'm sure it will apply in the future.


Ethan wants to know why "veteran ledgies" didn't find this thread thought-provoking. He thinks it's a post of "substance" that will jump-start conversation here. Well, it's because nobody wants to read a long-assed story about you & your life without being asked to share something about theirs. It would have been different if you had posted that your parents are divorcing & it sucks, and you wanted to know what are other ledgie's experiences with divorce have been. But you never do that. Ever.

The reason you turn people off is that you never show any interest in any other members' threads, posts, lives. You frequently ask for "yours guys alls" advice & then never return to read it (or if you do, you don't bother to acknowledge that you've done so.) It's rude, and it's a waste of my (and many other posters') time to bother to read & respond to any your threads because it's obvious you don't WANT to know what yous guys all think.

I can't believe you're still here pulling the same ****. Seriously. Either you get off on baiting people into bitching at/about you (see, you got me again!) or you're ridiculously socially immature for your age with a touch of ADHD. You're either a mad genius or developmentally disabled. I still can't figure out which, so shame on me.

First of all, I asked you all if this thread was thought provoking.

I have asked about other peoples' lives and have started many threads involving others lives, but they often go undetected. That is not my problem. To say that I don't care about other peoples' lives is a complete crock of bull.

This was a completely legitimate thread- not filled with "****" as you called it. People post about personal thoughts all the time- but it seems as though I am the ONLY one that ever hears about it. There is no baiting or BS involved. The reason people have a problem with me is because a select few people get turned off by my posts (which is totally fine) and then decide to blow it up- disturbing the peace. It is this disturbing of peace that causes people issues, not my "****". This is why when things get out of hand I ask for them to stop and then stop posting, because I refuse to perpetuate it.

I know you have a deal with me but you don't need to get things worked up because of it. Feel free to take it up with me in PM.

Final Word~

[GODDESS6]

Originally Posted by Musicman408

First of all, I asked you all if this thread was thought provoking.

I have asked about other peoples' lives and have started many threads involving others lives, but they often go undetected. That is not my problem. To say that I don't care about other peoples' lives is a complete crock of bull.

This was a completely legitimate thread- not filled with "****" as you called it. People post about personal thoughts all the time- but it seems as though I am the ONLY one that ever hears about it. There is no baiting or BS involved. The reason people have a problem with me is because a select few people get turned off by my posts (which is totally fine) and then decide to blow it up- disturbing the peace. It is this disturbing of peace that causes people issues, not my "****". This is why when things get out of hand I ask for them to stop and then stop posting, because I refuse to perpetuate it.

I know you have a deal with me but you don't need to get things worked up because of it. Feel free to take it up with me in PM.

Final Word~

i find you very insensitive ethan, here's one point why~ you used to pm me alot, w/ well wishes & such~ i don't know why, as we haven't a close friendship, but i am not mean by nature & i would reply back~ at one time i didn't reply right away because i had just had to put my 4 year old dog to sleep~ it was sudden & heartbreaking & i wasn't in the pming mood~

when i did finally get back to you & told you why i hadn't responded, your answer to me was~ "well yeah, my greyhound has cancer, so you know, you'll get over it"~ i thought that was horribly insensitive & hurtful~ i didn't expect you to bend over backwards & send me a card or flowers or anything~ but coming from someone who post all the time like he is this super sensitive guy, to seem so cold & uncaring just rubbed me the wrong way~ i got the feeling that because it wasn't about you, your feelings & life, you just didn't care~

so when people feel the same about what goes on in your little world can you see why?~

[Musicman408]

Originally Posted by GODDESS6

i find you very insensitive ethan, here's one point why~ you used to pm me alot, w/ well wishes & such~ i don't know why, as we haven't a close friendship, but i am not mean by nature & i would reply back~ at one time i didn't reply right away because i had just had to put my 4 year old dog to sleep~ it was sudden & heartbreaking & i wasn't in the pming mood~

when i did finally get back to you & told you why i hadn't responded, your answer to me was~ "well yeah, my greyhound has cancer, so you know, you'll get over it"~ i thought that was horribly insensitive & hurtful~ i didn't expect you to bend over backwards & send me a card or flowers or anything~ but coming from someone who post all the time like he is this super sensitive guy, to seem so cold & uncaring just rubbed me the wrong way~ i got the feeling that because it wasn't about you, your feelings & life, you just didn't care~

so when people feel the same about what goes on in your little world can you see why?~

Sweetie, I would never be that insensitive. I remember that correspondence, and I believe me response was something more along the lines of "I am sorry to hear about that. My greyhound was just diagnosed with cancer, so I can sympathize with you. I am sorry".

I would never be that insensitive to say something like that- and never have. If you still have record of that PM, please send it to me, because I can't believe that would be sent out on my part as I am not that insensitive.

[Black_Moon]

Originally Posted by Musicman408

Sweetie, I would never be that insensitive. I remember that correspondence, and I believe me response was something more along the lines of "I am sorry to hear about that. My greyhound was just diagnosed with cancer, so I can sympathize with you. I am sorry".

I would never be that insensitive to say something like that- and never have. If you still have record of that PM, please send it to me, because I can't believe that would be sent out on my part as I am not that insensitive.

The fact you call people "sweetie" before you put forward an underhand comment is so patronising I could be sick.