So why didn't you have a date tonight? - Page 3

Ghost_Tracker · #31 08-16-2009, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Chrislit18

and welshwitchpmd- I 100% agree- forget men!! My mom and I agree that they're only good for one thing

Playing the drums and bass guitar?

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Originally Posted by Chrislit18

I this was a facebook status, I'd 'like' it

and welshwitchpmd- I 100% agree- forget men!! My mom and I agree that they're only good for one thing

seriously though, my priorites are not on men at all..and I'd need a guy with the same ones as me- technology and knowledge first- relationships second...for now anyways...

I have an "alternative theory" that it's because nobody loves me and everybody hates me.

louielouie2000 · #32 08-16-2009, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by brysondt

Exactly. Thats why I don't date guys my age. This guy is a bit older than me. I'm strange...I've never quite felt like I connect with guys my age.

If you date an older man once, it's harder to go back.

Same here. I'm 27, and I've never been able to relate to people my own age. That's why my guy is 38! lol At least he knows who Stevie is, and even remembers all her videos!

iamnotafraid · #33 08-16-2009, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Musicman408

Every time I've like a girl, I've tried pursuing them... They just don't seem to notice!

Watch Elvis. TCM is showing a marathon of his movies.
Just do what Elvis does, and then the girls will notice you.

Ghost_Tracker · #34 08-16-2009, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Musicman408

There aren't too many girls my age in my neighborhood.

Every time I've like a girl, I've tried pursuing them... They just don't seem to notice!

The trick is to NOT pursue them. Then wait until they pursue you. You gotta be a member of a group and make yourself "stand out" somehow. One very easy way to do that is to dress nice, which is absolutely mandatory. Dressing nice doesn't have to involve spending a lot of money. But there's more to "standing out" than that. Stevie said it best, i.m.o. - - "It's ALL in the way you say very little."
And you gotta look like somebody who's "headed somewhere" - - Women like guys with a little bit of ambition - but don't make it obvious that you're trying to sell yourself that way - "hints" are more interesting anyway.

Mostly, you gotta make yourself seem unavailable; 'cause scarcity has value.

Or the exact opposite of that or somewhere in-between.

BUT . . . You won't listen to that. Hell, *I* didn't! I'm not convinced ANY guy ever does until it's too late.

And seriously, for the love of God, check out the X-Files - - - Especially the pilot episode:

"Are you familiar with a man named Fox Mulder?
Scully: "Yes."
"How so?"
Scully: "By Reputation."

Ignore that at your own risk!!!!!

daniellaaarisen · #35 08-16-2009, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by vivfox

I do!!!
Right now I like Christian, Carlos, Andre and Danny. One of them will be mine soon enough. I also have pictures of all of them.
Carlos asked me to buy him a new pair of sneakers and I just might do it.

Go for it! Carpe diem, seriously.

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Originally Posted by Chrislit18

My mom and I agree that they're only good for one thing

But that's kinda an important thing.

Hence all my life problems which really boil down to my tendency to totally screw with male brains in inappropriate ways. Sigh.

I went on a.... "date".... tonight. Yes, it is a Sunday.

iamnotafraid · #36 08-16-2009, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

I went on a.... "date".... tonight. Yes, it is a Sunday.

And....???

vivfox · #37 08-16-2009, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

I went on a.... "date".... tonight. Yes, it is a Sunday.

Maybe it's really a Sundae.

daniellaaarisen · #38 08-16-2009, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by iamnotafraid

And....???

It wasn't exactly a "date", we can politely put it that way. Definitely a good evening, though!

iamnotafraid · #39 08-17-2009, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

It wasn't exactly a "date", we can politely put it that way. Definitely a good evening, though!

I'm going to have to think about this a little bit.
You might have to be a little less polite!

On another subject...........
This place was rocking last night.
I felt like we were all playing tag,
those of us who were here after
midnight (my time, anyway).
COOL BEANS

daniellaaarisen · #40 08-17-2009, 12:27 AM

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Originally Posted by iamnotafraid

I'm going to have to think about this a little bit.
You might have to be a little less polite!

On another subject...........
This place was rocking last night.
I felt like we were all playing tag,
those of us who were here after
midnight (my time, anyway).
COOL BEANS

There are children present!

Ghost_Tracker · #41 08-17-2009, 01:58 AM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Go for it! Carpe diem, seriously.

Carpe noctum.

(Actually it's "carpe diem, carpe noctem, carpe vitam" - God Bless Google. lol!)

daniellaaarisen · #42 08-17-2009, 02:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Ghost_Tracker

Carpe noctum.

One of these days, I will be able to totally out-Latin you. I'm hoping to take it in college

Dodfather · #43 08-17-2009, 05:29 AM

[QUOTE=brysondt;836876]Exactly. Thats why I don't date guys my age. This guy is a bit older than me. I'm strange...I've never quite felt like I connect with guys my age.

If you date an older man once, it's harder to go back.[/QUOTE]

Thisd may also be true of guys dating older women. I was with someone who was 18 years older than me... the age difference did get in the way eventually (I was fine with it, I may add!) but while it lasted it was great!!

Guys what do you think??

Ghost_Tracker · #44 08-17-2009, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

One of these days, I will be able to totally out-Latin you. I'm hoping to take it in college

To be honest I Googled it.

Musicman408 · #45 08-17-2009, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Ghost_Tracker

The trick is to NOT pursue them. Then wait until they pursue you. You gotta be a member of a group and make yourself "stand out" somehow. One very easy way to do that is to dress nice, which is absolutely mandatory. Dressing nice doesn't have to involve spending a lot of money. But there's more to "standing out" than that. Stevie said it best, i.m.o. - - "It's ALL in the way you say very little."
And you gotta look like somebody who's "headed somewhere" - - Women like guys with a little bit of ambition - but don't make it obvious that you're trying to sell yourself that way - "hints" are more interesting anyway.

Mostly, you gotta make yourself seem unavailable; 'cause scarcity has value.

Or the exact opposite of that or somewhere in-between.

BUT . . . You won't listen to that. Hell, *I* didn't! I'm not convinced ANY guy ever does until it's too late.

And seriously, for the love of God, check out the X-Files - - - Especially the pilot episode:

"Are you familiar with a man named Fox Mulder?
Scully: "Yes."
"How so?"
Scully: "By Reputation."

Ignore that at your own risk!!!!!

Hey- thank you for your words!!!