on the outside looking in

[irishgrl]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Okay, who the hell is Bop? Please pardon my ignorance.

he's the conglomeration sitting on the back of Michelles motorcycle. part rooster, part goat, part redneck.

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by irishgrl

he's the conglomeration sitting on the back of Michelles motorcycle. part rooster, part goat, part redneck.

Yes but who invented him? Is he some kind of character from something or just Michelle's imaginary BF?

[DrummerDeanna]

^^

Suze! Where have you been? There was a whole scary thread entitled Mr. Bop that should explain everything to you....

And yes, letting my true self emerge, but in my case there is definitely room for self-improvement as well...like I need to stop being so mean...and negative...but that's for my own mental wellness really

[michelle2677]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

just Michelle's imaginary BF?

somebody has to do it

[irishgrl]

Michelle, did you see post #28? Sorry for the misunderstanding

[irishgrl]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

^^

Suze! Where have you been? There was a whole scary thread entitled Mr. Bop that should explain everything to you....

And yes, letting my true self emerge, but in my case there is definitely room for self-improvement as well...like I need to stop being so mean...and negative...but that's for my own mental wellness really

You're NOT mean! You're one of the sweetest people I know!
you can start being kinder to yourself RIGHT NOW!!!

*please?*

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by irishgrl

You're NOT mean! You're one of the sweetest people I know!
you can start being kinder to yourself RIGHT NOW!!!

*please?*

Thanks I am nice to people I care about - everyone else? I sometimes scare myself with what a bitch I can be I just want to get in touch with my softer/gentler/kinder side I guess....let more of that out and less of the other in....

I've just really closed myself off to people in the last three years _ I want to reverse that this year

[estranged4life]

Originally Posted by DavidMn

I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not

to live, be honest with yourself and to hell with what anyone ever thinks about you. If people dont care about you for being yourself then that is there loss, not yours, dont change to fit into their puzzle when you dont feel like the puzzle piece.

Trust me, People have tried to change me all my life and they still fail. My Mother never tried as have my wife Deb...Whereas the people who have are no longer a "puzzle piece" in my life.

[michelle2677]

Originally Posted by irishgrl

Michelle, did you see post #28? Sorry for the misunderstanding

yes, I did. thank you