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Old 02-08-2005, 11:14 PM
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:17 PM
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what, no "why yes...i do" ?
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:18 PM
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what, no "why yes...i do" ?
I was gonna say something like that, but it seemed to obvious...
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:22 PM
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I was gonna say something like that, but it seemed to obvious...
sumthin prob only obv to a few...squint ones eyes just right and that 2nd pic in your sig is slightly pornographic!
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:25 PM
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sumthin prob only obv to a few...squint ones eyes just right and that 2nd pic in your sig is slightly pornographic!
Yeah, I suppose, in a 20's kind of way.
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:30 PM
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Yeah, I suppose, in a 20's kind of way.
perhaps this laptop screen has sumthin to do with it...
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:33 PM
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How soon is too soon for someone to say "I love you" in a relationship?
In my opinion, there's no rule on how long to wait until you say "I love you"... it depends on how the relationship is going, and how connected the two of you are (or aren't).

I've heard it from a couple of guys in record time, and I found myself scrambling to figure out a nice way to let them know I wasn't feeling it yet.

However, recently someone said it to me when other people would consider it "way too soon," but from him it was VERY welcome.

So, I think the answer is... it's never too soon when it FEELS right. And you will know when it's right.
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:35 PM
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Hmm...

Well, the context might help (or maybe it doesn't matter). We've been dating for a little over a month, and this was more like a quick "love ya" at the end of a conversation, not a lingering, romantic "I love you." Although, there was a bit of a pause before he said it. It made me wince a little bit, because I know this guy has been developing strong feelings (from his perspective) for me, but has been biting his tongue.
Doesn't sound like anything to worry about, to be honest. Sounds like it was more of an expression than an exchange of deep feelings. Now, if the person I've currently been seeing for the past two weeks said anything like that, I'd barricade myself in my bedroom and never leave.
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:38 PM
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Doesn't sound like anything to worry about, to be honest. Sounds like it was more of an expression than an exchange of deep feelings. Now, if the person I've currently been seeing for the past two weeks said anything like that, I'd barricade myself in my bedroom and never leave.
Oh, you found one that's not mean to waiters and doesn't think Debbie is a bloated has been and then buys Michael Jackson's greatest hits?
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:41 PM
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Oh, you found one that's not mean to waiters and doesn't think Debbie is a bloated has been and then buys Michael Jackson's greatest hits?
Yeah, it's not going to turn into anything past what it is now, they're just a really nice person. With a very dry sense of humor that gets me every time; I love it. Lives upstairs from me, too.
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:43 PM
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Yeah, it's not going to turn into anything past what it is now, they're just a really nice person. With a very dry sense of humor that gets me every time; I love it. Lives upstairs from me, too.
Ooo, lives upstairs, that's nice that "they" do, how convenient! I lived upstairs from by bf before, and I went out with my roomate, too. Definitely convenient. I'm glad your new person is funny. I hope "they" know you don't really like them that much...
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Lives upstairs from me, too.
the neighbor you wrote of the other night?
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:47 PM
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Ooo, lives upstairs, that's nice that "they" do, how convenient! I lived upstairs from by bf before, and I went out with my roomate, too. Definitely convenient. I'm glad your new person is funny. I hope "they" know you don't really like them that much...


He does, it's just good company, nothing more. And if he didn't have a sense of humor, I'd be incredibly uninterested. I've dated serious types before and it felt like I was dying a slow death. Making me laugh is a prerequisite for even conversing with me.
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Now, if the person I've currently been seeing for the past two weeks said anything like that, I'd barricade myself in my bedroom and never leave.
Oh bless this persons' heart.....
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Old 02-08-2005, 11:49 PM
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the neighbor you wrote of the other night?
That would be the one. New neighbor, too, just moved in fairly recently. How anyone can move in the middle of winter is a mystery to me, but...
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