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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen
I have a big reason or two why my luck with relationships sucks, but I don't think they root from the turnoffs you listed. Not that the list isn't accurate... I'm just not good at the "settle down and stop messing with his head for fun" thing. I like to play with my food before I eat it and although I am unnaturally good at keeping a guy's interest because of it, it never goes to "the next level".
Bleh.
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gross, gross, gross. not only is this notion gross, but it's wildly popular too. it's comments like these that totally undercut the idea that there is widespread misogyny in our culture. women are not victims of a patriarchal society; they've been complicit in the push-me/pull-you game of sexual and romantic relationships between men and women for millenia. it's just easier for women to cast themselves as victims than it is for men.
blergh.