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Originally Posted by Sarah
meh.
We've had our clashes and aren't very, very close.. but I'm not a warm person anyway. I always wish that I was.. but I just can't bring myself to hug or say I love you. I don't really know why.
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I used to feel that way about myself for a long time too, untill i met my husband. Him i
could hug and tell him i loved him.
I don't think i've ever told my parents that i loved them. The past couple of years i've tried hugging them and at first they kinda turned to stone when i did, but now the have loosened up a bit, especially my mom.
As a kid, growing up, there never was any hugging going on at our house. Why, i have no idea, but i'm certain that it did influence my behaviour.
What i mean to say Sarah is that, don't say you're not a warm person, cause i think deep inside you are. It just takes the right people to bring that out.
here's a start :
