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Originally Posted by michelle2677
yes. this is VERY important. Even if later on, he's off buying them gifts, and taking them places-getting to do all the "fun" stuff with them just to make up for not being there, while you're at home taking them to the dentist and making them do their homework-please remember when they grow up they'll know. That happened to me when i was a kid and I know it killed my mother that my dad hung the moon, but now that i'm older, I know exactly what was up and my mother and I have the best relationship. My dad? not so much.
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I don't understand it from any point of view honestly. My folks have been married for 31 years, so I've never been through a divorce. However, I do know that once they are much older and understand much better, they will know who took care of them and who tried to snowball them.