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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze
I didn't contradict myself because once we are mature we can change our beliefs and improve our self-image. We can choose what we see and what we buy into. However, it would be a lot easier if we were exposed to millions of healthy images instead of sick ones, wouldn't it?
I'm also happier single than I've ever been with a man, except for the first couple of months with my first BF and the first couple with Sean. Until they really revealed themselves. My self-image is also better now that I'm heavier but that is a result of maturity.
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Well, speaking for myself, I dont think I actually began approaching maturity until maybe 10 years ago or so, so thats an awful long time to have a poor self image and an awful lot to overcome. In fact, I can only say that Ive BEGUN to start to appreciate myself as I am (not as I was told I should be) in the last few years or so.....Plus, a person has to recognize that they WANT to change their self image and thats a toughie too....
I dont know, I think its hard to understand what constitutes maturity when you arent "mature" yet, and conversely, its kind of mind-boggling to realize just how naive we were once we DO mature.....