Oh, I love how he's talking about the home he's making for himself and says that he never did anything with the space before because, "my wife never encouraged me". Huh? I bet there are 1001 things he's been doing non-stop that Lynn never encouraged him to do.
If you give someone power over you, that does not mean you are their victim or are at their mercy. The responsibility is still yours. So, maybe he let Lynn decide which homes they would decorate. He abrogated that task. It was still his choice too, even if he let someone else make it. Just that language and wording is annoying. I hate it when people deflect blame in their own lives in that fashion.
Michele
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