TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness!

[LikeAWillow]

Originally Posted by RickRobert

Gonna be hard to top that. Then again this is the Ledge...

I know people will come through.

Also, weirdest place everyone has had sex (if it's different?)

Mine's on the Wellesley bus that runs between my school and Harvard/MIT. People call it the f*ck truck for what they assume to be the obvious reason a Wellesley girl would GO to Harvard/MIT. I decided I needed to reclaim the term by making it literal. I've managed to pull this off twice so far.

[LikeAWillow]

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

The Charles River Esplanade in Boston. Don't ask.

So far all the strange places are in Boston. It's a small sample at two, but still. Good job, my town

[HomerMcvie]

Originally Posted by fumidesigns

*lowers head in shame* whats edging?

Working yourself to the "edge" of climax, but not letting yourself "complete".

[HomerMcvie]

Originally Posted by RickRobert

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what?

Okay, when I first got my driver's license, I had this thing, where I'd get naked, and drive through the country, in the middle of the night. I don't know why I thought that was so hot... I only did it 2-3 times.

The strangest place I've ever seen people naked, is a parking garage here. Now, I'm the king of curiosity, and one night, I just thought, "ya know, I've never driven to the top of this thing"(especially since I hate heights). So I drove to the top, and there was a couple, naked and fukcing, on top of one of the concrete walls.
Too.fukcing.hott.

[louielouie2000]

Originally Posted by RickRobert

Hmm, after the nude beach talk, here's a TMI question... weirdest place you've been naked?

... what?

Good one!! Obviously I'm the one who goes to nude beaches. I've also been to clothing optional resorts in Key West. I don't just walk around nude at the resorts, tho... but I do skinny dip.

Let's see... I've also been naked in quite a few strange places. One of my friends in South Carolina lives way out in the country, and I've laid out on a blanket naked in his back field looking at the stars at night. Yes, alcohol was involved.

My parents live on a very secluded lake in North Carolina, and I've taken the family boat out before with various guys I've dated and have actually driven the boat in the nude.

There is a super remote place in the North Carolina mountains called Wiseman's View... I've sat on the edge of a cliff there in the buff. There's something cleansing about being nude in a beautiful, remote place!

[HomerMcvie]

During the summer, I'm naked by the pool, pretty much every single day.

[ButterCookie]

Not naked (I keep my clothes on through paranoia) but I did a topless run round an estate at about 10.30 at night with a friend. We were told later that we'd "made a lot of people's dreams come true"

[fumidesigns]

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Working yourself to the "edge" of climax, but not letting yourself "complete".

What the fukc!? Y would someone willingly do this to theirself!?!?

[fumidesigns]

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

During the summer, I'm naked by the pool, pretty much every single day.

I can dig it!!!!!!

[HomerMcvie]

Originally Posted by fumidesigns

What the fukc!? Y would someone willingly do this to theirself!?!?

Why would someone use a hand grenade, when they could use an atomic bomb?

[skcin]

Originally Posted by mylittledemon

I CANNOT SLEEP naked. Ever. I do take showers before i go to bed... but something about my arse right on the sheets makes me uncomfortable. Like I'm dirtying them up. I dunno.

I sweat more naked than clothed. WTF? I almost never sleep naked, it's uncormfortable to me. I also must have at least a sheet on me at all times.

Originally Posted by ButterCookie

Eugh, I hate thongs, too. I don't like the feeling of having dental floss up my bum! It's boxers for me or briefs, as long as they cover me properly. I hate the feeling of my butt hanging out when it's meant to be panted

Good to know I'm not quite the only woman in the world who feels this way.

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Me too! I use flannel sheets, year round, and love being naked between them. I've worn sweats to bed, this entire, seemingly neverending, fukcing winter. I should hopefully be able to embrace my nude sleep habits, here in a week or two!

We have flannel all year too. So nice & soft.

Originally Posted by mylittledemon

I Was In The Pool!!!!

"You know about...shrinkage. Right?"
"It shrinks?"

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Other than just flat out saying "no", I don't know how I could stop it.

There is no other way. So just tell them no. It's your house, it's your pool. If you invite a few people over, make it clear that YOU are the only person allowed to invite anyone else - they are NOT free to bring whoever.

And underage chicks swimming around naked & drinking on your property? Holy ****, dude. You're damn lucky someone didn't drown. Or get knocked up. Or get alcohol poisoning. Or get charged with rape (I'm not saying you or anyone else DID anything with anyone underage, but it's he said/she said...) or providing alcohol to minors. Even if you didn't invite them - it's not worth your house, your life & your future in exchange for being a nice guy.

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Is it typical for females to share this kind of information openly with each other? Yes, you live together. But... ewww!!!! TMI, indeed.

Um. Yes.

Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Back on topic, I was under the impression that a vast majority of pre-menopausal women were on some kind of birth control pill just to diminish or avoid the adverse symptoms of monthly menstruation, if nothing else. I suppose it would be rather irksome to be doing my thing and then suddenly seeing the Red Sea flowing from my pants unexpectedly.

It is a bit odd to me that Likeawillow can overpower the BC pill. I think that girl needs a higher dose, or isn't taking them correctly.

[HomerMcvie]

Originally Posted by skcin

I sweat more naked than clothed. WTF? I almost never sleep naked, it's uncormfortable to me. I also must have at least a sheet on me at all times.


We have flannel all year too. So nice & soft.



There is no other way. So just tell them no. It's your house, it's your pool. If you invite a few people over, make it clear that YOU are the only person allowed to invite anyone else - they are NOT free to bring whoever.

And underage chicks swimming around naked & drinking on your property? Holy ****, dude. You're damn lucky someone didn't drown. Or get knocked up. Or get alcohol poisoning. Or get charged with rape (I'm not saying you or anyone else DID anything with anyone underage, but it's he said/she said...) or providing alcohol to minors. Even if you didn't invite them - it's not worth your house, your life & your future in exchange for being a nice guy.

I too, have to have at least a sheet on me, or I can't sleep.

I can't stand the feel of regular sheets now. I want new bedroom furniture, with a bigger bed, but I've got so many sets of full size flannels, that I'm waiting for them to wear out, to make the change.

Oh, believe me, the first night they showed up, I WAS PISSED. Who the fukc invited THEM? They were 18 and 19.
Unfortunately, we hit it off, big time. Besties, almost immediately. So we made the deal that they could come, as long as they spent the night(in another bedroom). They were not allowed to leave, if they drank. But then their friends were starting showing up, and it just got to be too much. And you can't explain to an 18yo, who has no job, or anything, how I could lose EVERYTHING. They just don't understand.

And since this is TMI...they were the ones who INSTIGATED the orgy. Then pissy and in denial, the next day. Things got ugly. We have since buried the hatchet, and they've asked if they can come party here, but I've made excuses, every time they've asked.

Yep, this year's rule is - absolutely NO ONE under 21. I will be 100% clear, on this. No exceptions.

[LikeAWillow]

Originally Posted by skcin

It is a bit odd to me that Likeawillow can overpower the BC pill. I think that girl needs a higher dose, or isn't taking them correctly.

She's definitely taking them correctly-- she's neurotic haha. Alarm set, pill in hand, every day at three (just watched it happen as always haha.) A higher dose could be totally applicable, but she's told her gyno about this (she's in a monogamous relationship, so the pill being effective is CRUCIAL, and when she first started noticing this happening, she was really freaked out) and her doctor claims that as long as it's just the spotting because of mine, she's still fine. Her reaction is just always SO funny. My personal favorite response of hers was after the gyno explained the "it's to help out in a tribe based child rearing way" and my roommate reported it back to me and added, "So this makes sense. Something in my body understands that you would just pop out a baby and then be like 'K. Done. Raise it for me, please?"

[camchristo]

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Other than just flat out saying "no", I don't know how I could stop it. I mean, I'm still good friends with the ones who started it all. They love me, and of course they will want to start it up again. I think maybe I should make a few rules.
#1 - NO ONE under 21.
#2 - Limit of 10-12 people.
#3 - You must KNOW me, to come(there were nights, where I wouldn't know 10 people, who were in and out of my house, while I'm in the pool, entertaining. That, is scary. Although I kept my music room, and my bedroom, locked at all times).
#4 - BYOB!!!

I'm with Paula on what she said. Way too many risks involved. There's even a risk if someone over 21 gets smashed, leaves, gets in an accident and hurts someone. If someone files a lawsuit, they'll be looking to get money wherever they can. And the orgy stuff? What if they're "being pissy" morped into someone claiming they were raped?

More than likely, those young people are using you for a cool place to hang out and free booze. The sure sign of people who are not good friends are those that will come to your place every night, eat and drink and never reciprocate or offer to bring anything.

Figure out who your true friends are and have them over. Then you won't have to stress about any of the above.

[HomerMcvie]

Originally Posted by camchristo

I'm with Paula on what she said. Way too many risks involved. There's even a risk if someone over 21 gets smashed, leaves, gets in an accident and hurts someone. If someone files a lawsuit, they'll be looking to get money wherever they can. And the orgy stuff? What if they're "being pissy" morped into someone claiming they were raped?

More than likely, those young people are using you for a cool place to hang out and free booze. The sure sign of people who are not good friends are those that will come to your place every night, eat and drink and never reciprocate or offer to bring anything.

Figure out who your true friends are and have them over. Then you won't have to stress about any of the above.

Agreed. I instantly knew all the risks, and hated that I was put into that position. I will definitely lay some ground rules, this year. I don't wanna be Mick Fleetwood, again.

Hey, Cammie, let me ax you this? My friend and I were discussing the liability issue, the other day.
If one makes a party BYOB, does that reduce the liability for the host? I would certainly think so.