are you in a relationship?

[ontheEdgeof17]

Originally Posted by takenbythesky

Um...You're welcome, Curtis...?

Wrong "inthesky"

Mirror said he had a dream about me.

[dissention]

Originally Posted by takenbythesky

there are about four year's worth of things I feel I have to improve about myself before being in one.

That's everyone!

[bretonbanquet]

I'm happily single - have been for a loooooong time. Wasn't always happy about it, but hey - let's not be bitter about something you can't change

[catinthedark]

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Did I type this?

Doh! Sorry if you're going through the same thing. I fear I will be the eternal dater. Can be fun, but not always the most satisfying...

[seeker007nmss]

Single.....old.......stevie...computer..... That about sums it up.

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by takenbythesky

...Thanks, Josh...It's nice to know I'm not alone!

No you're not. But think less about what you think you need to "fix" and more about who is acceptable to you, when you're ready.

When I think back one thing I would have done differently is compromise LESS of myself when I was younger. This is a healthier way to be. You are so young there is no rush to be in a relationship, is there? If I had it to do over again I would have dated when I was young instead of serial super-close relationships. Too young/ too confusing. I guess you gotta play the way you feel it though. I was so different then.

[sparky]

Happily Single.

I do frequent test drives, but mostly just for the fun of it.

If Mr. Hunky Dreamboat showed up, I might consider dating.

He'd better be something though, to make me even think about it.

[WelshWitchPMD]

I picked number 2. I too am a hermit. Maybe I'll hook up with another hermit but really how would we meet?

[bretonbanquet]

Originally Posted by WelshWitchPMD

I picked number 2. I too am a hermit. Maybe I'll hook up with another hermit but really how would we meet?

I suspect you'd meet on the Ledge!

[GateandGarden]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

Wrong "inthesky"

Mirror said he had a dream about me.

I got them confused one time too! I'm glad I'm not the only one! I remember one time I thought Justin was Mirror and so I was thinking he was gay, but then now he's out and they're both gay so it doesn't matter...damn, this doesn't make sense. Okay, the point is that I got them mixed up on the board a few months ago, so you're not alone.

[SteveMacD]

HOPELESSLY SINGLE!!!
What seriously sucks is that I'm going to a wedding next weekend. I HATE going to weddings, because I always feel like I'm the only single dude there. Of course, it doesn't help that my dream wedding is a JP wedding with lunch at Burger King.

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by WelshWitchPMD

I picked number 2. I too am a hermit. Maybe I'll hook up with another hermit but really how would we meet?

I was secretly hoping maybe my dad would talk to you when you guys met, hehe. He really isn't that old, he is 52. I guess that might be too old. But he is a hermit! And obviously not that great socially. Plus, you had been standing in the heat all day so the last thing on your mind probly was meeting someone. I think he kind of looks like Lindsey.

[Serendipity]

There wasnt one for irritatingly engaged to childhood sweetheart....bless him that poor man puts up with so much. A 'casual' FM fan, his mum gave me "Rumours" three years ago and created a monster. He just rolls his eyes and nods when I quote Stevie in everyday conversation..I think he might be a keeper.

~Nicki

[HomerMcvie]

Originally Posted by catinthedark

Doh! Sorry if you're going through the same thing. I fear I will be the eternal dater. Can be fun, but not always the most satisfying...

Well, the thing that hit me hardest about your post was:

My first true love just set the bar too damned high

I fell HARD about 6 years ago. But, apparently, it wasn't meant to be(not by MY choice ). I was as down as I've ever been. I'm still not over it. I doubt I ever will be. And I've not dated since(although I've had quite a few offers). I literally have no interest. I can't settle for less.
How depressing.

[SuzeQuze]

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Well, the thing that hit me hardest about your post was: I fell HARD about 6 years ago. But, apparently, it wasn't meant to be(not by MY choice ). I was as down as I've ever been. I'm still not over it. I doubt I ever will be. And I've not dated since(although I've had quite a few offers). I literally have no interest. I can't settle for less.
How depressing.

Wow, that is a long time to not date. There is life after a breakup! But dating does suck. I broke up with the BF in Dec and haven't had a date. Stupid dating.