How Old Is Too Old To Lose Your Virginity??

[amber]

Originally Posted by sparky

Ho****. I was very young. But I won't go into that. Also - how do you want to define virginity ?

Most kids under 18 do not have the emotional maturity to deal with sex under 18, but it doesn't stop them. Didn't stop me. And thankfully I wasn't in the arena to be getting anyone pregnant. It can definitely mess up girls, as they tend to place more of an emotional investment on sex. But too old ? I would say in your 20's is probably pushing it, but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.
Everyone has different priorites and frankly sex means many different things to different people.

Speaking of which - you gonna write that manual?

[sara1998]

Originally Posted by amber

Speaking of which - you gonna write that manual?

Too funny!

[sparky]

Originally Posted by amber

Speaking of which - you gonna write that manual?

WHICH ONE ?

[markolas]

Originally Posted by sparky

Ho****. I was very young. But I won't go into that. Also - how do you want to define virginity ?

That's an excellent question. And depending on how it's answered you could consider me a virgin until a year and a half ago.

[Miss Vicky]

Originally Posted by sparky

But too old ? I would say in your 20's is probably pushing it.

Thanks for the reassurance there, Sparks.

24 1/2 year old virgin here.

Anybody wanna help me out with that problem? Anyone?

[sparky]

Originally Posted by Miss Vicky

Thanks for the reassurance there, Sparks.

You have my full support. Like I said, people have different needs and experiences. I am sure you will get what you need when you need it, so to speak.

[Nixxxed]

Don't rush it. When it's right, it's right - for YOU, not for anyone else.

Also, don't be hung up on one physical act. There are many ways to experience intimacy and/or pleasure. So, technically, you're a virgin for all those, too.

And I'm not talking about only sex. Have you ever slow-danced with your loved one on a dance floor? How about a romantic picnic? Walked hand-in-hand down the street? Kissed in public? Those types of things can provide just as big a rush, and be just as fulfilling, than anything you could do in bed.

One last suggestion - PLAY SAFE. And good luck, and have fun, on your own terms.

[CelticGypsy]

Originally Posted by foxyluva

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??

I was 22 and I had been engaged for about six months. What happened, I got pregnant but at least the wedding date had been already been planned three weeks later. Yes, I could have waited but at least I waited for the right man and he was the only one and we are happy after 27 years of marriage. He still makes me tingle

Better to wait for that right person. I have grown up kids that had sex for first time at ages 16 and 19. Messed up relationships and they would drift from one boyfriend to another. They are older and wiser now and finally have learned that casual sex is not as great as everyone told them it would be. It is better to be in a relationship with somebody you love and respect than have sex with someone you could care less about. Less stress and worries.

[DavidMn]

Well, for me it was very interesting. I didn't until I was 31. I'd never done anything with a woman, and had known for sure I was gay since I was 14. BUt for whatever reason I didnt do anything until 3 years ago. Since then, however......

[mylittledemon]

My first time was the summer before I turned 18. It was great. Looking back, I didnt know what the hell I was doing...but at the time it was "awesome." I had had oral sex several times before that, but the first time there was some poke-age was summer of 97'. Great times.

[skcin]

You queens aren't going to make the straight married lady tell them what a Dirty Sanchez is, are you? BTW - I'm a Dirty Sanchez virgin too.



I was 16, he was 21. I stayed with the guy until I was almost 19 - then he asked me to marry him. Um..........no, dude, I want to go to school & stuff. Oh, and I don't want to spend the rest of my life with you. 'Kay?

Mark & I started dating 3 months later.


Markolas - is you poll about how many partners people have had?

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by mylittledemon

My first time was the summer before I turned 18. It was great. Looking back, I didnt know what the hell I was doing...but at the time it was "awesome." I had had oral sex several times before that, but the first time there was some poke-age was summer of 97'. Great times.

I think most guys are that old or younger. I think far more guys are willing and able than girls allow themselves to be, at when I was in school. I mean each class had the one or two loose girls that like 30 of the guys had allegedly been with

[Gypsy-Rhiannon]

Originally Posted by foxyluva

Hey guys, i had an interesting conversation with my friend about losing your virginity - he said that he lost his at 14, and he was told by friends that that was a really old age to lose it, and alot of them lost it at 11 and 12. Now we are both 19, and im still one but the only difference is im gay, and he is straight (many of you will know how difficult that can be when growing up) - so my question to you is, what age is still having your virginity kind of weird?? How Old Is Too Old??

Bloody hell! As a mother myself I find it shocking that someone thinks 14 is old to be losing your virginity. 11 and 12?? Holy crap!

[Brwn_eyes0511]

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