I dont know how I got so lucky to have an amazing friend like this.... - Page 2

**mylittledemon** · #16 01-16-2010, 01:37 AM

Caitlin... some people are just no damn good. In this instance, your best bet is to stop (immediately) wasting any more time on trying to figure out why someone who was a friend would do something like this. Let it go and ignore her.

fringed n fab · #17 01-16-2010, 01:47 AM

I think this could have been handled privately between the two of you instead of posting it on a public forum, or Twitter or any other means. But that's just me. It sounds like she had more issues with you than just not being able to hang out. Hopefully you two will work things out because as long as I've been a member on 7W these past couple years, you two always seemed such good friends from your posts.

vivfox · #18 01-16-2010, 01:59 AM

Caitlin, I hate being on the outs with my friends. It sucks. Hopefully you guys will be able to patch things up. Everybody on The Ledge adores you. Hope that helps.

skcin · #19 01-20-2010, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Enchanted_Stevi

3) I did send her a message saying I was sorry if I ignored her and I did not mean to do it intentionally and that I still wanna be friends and what not. No response yet.

Here's an idea. Talk in person. Like, out loud. With real words.

With a voice she can hear, a face she can see. Show her you give a ****.

Typed or written messages are way too easy to be misunderstood & misinterpreted. People read into things that aren't there, or miss things that are. And it's so cold & impersonal.

David · #20 01-20-2010, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by skcin

Typed or written messages are way too easy to be misunderstood & misinterpreted. People read into things that aren't there, or miss things that are. And it's so cold & impersonal.

You've never read Colette's letters!

PutTheBlameOnMe · #21 01-20-2010, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Enchanted_Stevi

2) I like to think that I did not ignore her in the beginning. In the beginning we were BFFS and did everything together and what not. Once I started getting involved w/ Ashley in a more intamate way Katie started backing off a bit. Which I dont get why because 90% of her friends at college are gay or bi. When we did hang out she always had some snarky remark to say to me or call me an asshole or annoying or whatever. Which I dont think I am an asshole nor annoying. So after a while of her doing this I just stopped talkin to her because I was sick of being put down. Yet, she think this is ALL my fault. It takes two to tango. She could have been more mature and said "hey I'm feeling kind of left out can we kind of fix this?" and I would have, but she negelcted to say anything until now and just bash me any chance she gets.

Maybe Katie is jealous of your relationship. Perhaps she liked you or your girlfriend in "that" way.
But then again, maybe yours and Ashley's relationship creeped her out (as wrong as that sounds). Did she know that you are gay/bi from the beginning?

I also agree with what many people have said. You need to talk face to face to her. Stop being childish and bitching about and to each other on Facebook, Twitter etc. As difficult as it will be you need to sort it all out and move on with your lives, either with each others friendship or without.