First High School Dance Last Night..... AMAZING!

[Chrislit18]

Originally Posted by Musicman408

Oh... My.... Gosh.... Girls are frustrating. I think I'm going to convert.

Seriously though, I really wonder if this girl is sort of avoiding me, or if It's all in my head. Just found out that we can't do the downtown thing in the evening as planned, so maybe we can do it during the day, but I just don't know..... ...... Why am I laughing, this is NOT a funny situation for me. How exactly should I approach this guys? I know we have some experts here. Approach the her avoiding me, not the downtown thing.

We had this conversation the other day in AP actually. I still think guys are MUCH worse, but thats from a girls POV.

Ok heres the thing, I may be able to help if you answer these following questions [PM me if you dont want to post the answers here, just because, well, trying to find someone sucks, trust me.]

1) have you talked to her since the dance
2) could you have said anything that either:
a) freaked her out
b) annoyed her
c) made her uncomfortable
3) talk to other girls purposely to make her jealous [ok I hate that, so I am assuming other girls do to.]
4) when she comes around look the other way/act un-natural?

Ethan, the best thing you can do is show confidence and just go up and talk to her. Showing confidence-not cockyness-is extremely attractive to girls.

Sure we are complicated beings, but seriously, some of the smallest stuff can make us happy, remembering something so insignifigant [that is not spelt right, I dont care] such as a favourite song, or something she said at the dance shows that you have some interest, will make her happy just because you remembered.


if she really seems to be avoiding you, and you cant pinpoint a reason, write her a poem [not a song, a poem] and leave it in her locker. dont make it too mushy, but enough that you care about her. [if a guy did that for me, id at least want to become good friends with him (im very picky though, in my defence), it shows that hes not like everyone else]


I really hope that I can help somewhat.
I mean, not that my situation isnt just as [or hell, probably more] complicated than this, but i like to help people, or at least attempt to.