The Funeral? - Page 2

Macfanforever · #16 08-15-2005, 09:21 PM

Stevie's Dads funeral should be private, family and close freinds will attend,A year and a half ago my stepdads funeral was a day later, he passed on thursday morning,wake him on friday,he was cremated. My mom had both of their funerals prearanged a year and a half earlier, she knew he was going to die with that bone cancer.

DavidMn · #17 08-16-2005, 12:48 AM

I'm not going to criticize anyone that has an interest in this subject, for for myself, I really have nonneed to know much about it. that's for the Nicks family and whomever they choose to invite. I really believe there is a line that fans shouldnt cross, and this is one of them. Again, it doesnt really bother me if others have an interest in the subject, just as long as it doesnt go too far

Mageboy25 · #18 08-23-2005, 02:02 AM

Instead of a funeral they had a celebration party this past Saturday in Phoenix. It was held in a private ballroom at a hotel for a couple hundred people. Many gave speeches about Jess to the crowd. Stevie and Lindsey performed Landslide together

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Dear God I hope this party does not surface in the bootleg community, that would really be in bad taste. But you never know what people might turn up lol. No I was not there, nor do I know the Nicks family.

Gypsy-Rhiannon · #19 08-23-2005, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Mageboy25

Instead of a funeral they had a celebration party this past Saturday in Phoenix. It was held in a private ballroom at a hotel for a couple hundred people. Many gave speeches about Jess to the crowd. Stevie and Lindsey performed Landslide together

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Dear God I hope this party does not surface in the bootleg community, that would really be in bad taste. But you never know what people might turn up lol. No I was not there, nor do I know the Nicks family.

How do you know this? I haven't read any other posts about this anywhere and I'm curious to know how you know?

Mageboy25 · #20 08-23-2005, 03:36 AM

I have lived in Los Angeles for several years. I know alot of people, the industry is a small world. Esp in the music community. You would be suprised how everyone is so connected. Everybody always knows somebody.

Dont worry Im not making this up. If you want you guys can go look back at the Judy Wong threads. I was the one that broke the news of her death to the Ledge 1st.

No I do not work in the funeral business lol.

mcboo · #21 08-23-2005, 06:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Mageboy25

Instead of a funeral they had a celebration party this past Saturday in Phoenix. It was held in a private ballroom at a hotel for a couple hundred people. Many gave speeches about Jess to the crowd. Stevie and Lindsey performed Landslide together

.

Dear God I hope this party does not surface in the bootleg community, that would really be in bad taste. But you never know what people might turn up lol. No I was not there, nor do I know the Nicks family.

what a great idea to have a celebration party. it must've been hard for Stevie and Lindsey to make it through Landslide......i can't even imagine.
Jess Nicks certainly has alot of life to celebrate!

Kelly · #22 08-23-2005, 07:37 AM

Just to chime in, I heard basically the same exact thing from a friend of mine last night. This was preplanned before Jess's death as well. He wanted it to be a celebration, instead of a mournful event. I was told Lindsey made a very beautiful, emotional speech too. (I am sure it included the word 'cycles' a few times)
I was also told that Lindsey did not perform Landslide with Stevie at the AHI benefit because it would have been too difficult for both of them to get through. Jess was seriously ill for weeks before he actually passed but the last three or four shows were nearly unbearable for Stevie. (according to someone I chat with who has done business in the past with the entire family) Having Lindsey out there onstage for Landslide would have been too much and the mask she was wearing during all the last shows would have crumbled quickly. (even Mick coming out for any songs probably have brought up alot of emotions in her) It sort of makes sense. She said for Stevie to get through the shows she really had to dig deep and put up a wall during many of the songs. I think it was pretty important to her Dad that Stevie be able to finish this tour out.

tynan88 · #23 08-23-2005, 07:47 AM

I always forget that Lindsey and Jess were close

editormarf · #24 08-23-2005, 10:09 AM

[QUOTE=Mageboy25]Instead of a funeral they had a celebration party this past Saturday in Phoenix. It was held in a private ballroom at a hotel for a couple hundred people. Many gave speeches about Jess to the crowd. Stevie and Lindsey performed Landslide together

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I can't believe what a strong woman she is. Hearing that she and Lindsey performed Landslide together gives me chills. I wrote a eulogy for my Mom but was too overcome to deliver so I had the minister read what I had written. I can't imagine doing what Stevie did. I guess this is part of what makes us love her and Lindsey both so much....

Jessica Leigh · #25 08-23-2005, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Kelly

Just to chime in, I heard basically the same exact thing from a friend of mine last night. This was preplanned before Jess's death as well. He wanted it to be a celebration, instead of a mournful event. I was told Lindsey made a very beautiful, emotional speech too. (I am sure it included the word 'cycles' a few times)
I was also told that Lindsey did not perform Landslide with Stevie at the AHI benefit because it would have been too difficult for both of them to get through. Jess was seriously ill for weeks before he actually passed but the last three or four shows were nearly unbearable for Stevie. (according to someone I chat with who has done business in the past with the entire family) Having Lindsey out there onstage for Landslide would have been too much and the mask she was wearing during all the last shows would have crumbled quickly. (even Mick coming out for any songs probably have brought up alot of emotions in her) It sort of makes sense. She said for Stevie to get through the shows she really had to dig deep and put up a wall during many of the songs. I think it was pretty important to her Dad that Stevie be able to finish this tour out.

Lindsey did not speak. Mick did, though.

Ghost_Tracker · #26 08-23-2005, 03:11 PM

[QUOTE=editormarf]

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mageboy25

Instead of a funeral they had a celebration party this past Saturday in Phoenix. It was held in a private ballroom at a hotel for a couple hundred people. Many gave speeches about Jess to the crowd. Stevie and Lindsey performed Landslide together

.

I can't believe what a strong woman she is. I guess this is part of what makes us love her and Lindsey both so much....

Would just like to comment a little -

I have a pretty good guess about who it is

that she gets at least some of that strength from.

In a way, maybe that was one of her final gifts to him -

to honor him in this way, even though it was so hard,

because he wanted her to be strong.

As she says, "This is for you, daddy."

She also knew this was coming, and, I think, mentally prepared

herself to do this for a long time, even though it was difficult.

Having said all of that gibberish -

Yeah.

wow.

***ThePenguin*** · #27 08-23-2005, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica Leigh

Lindsey did not speak. Mick did, though.

Do you know who else in the 'FM family' was there besides Mick and Lindsey? I'm just curious.

and okay, I'll ask because I'm nosy-- Were you there?

-Lis

Ghost_Tracker · #28 08-23-2005, 05:18 PM

[QUOTE=Kelly]Just to chime in, I heard basically the same exact thing from a friend of mine last night. This was preplanned before Jess's death as well. He wanted it to be a celebration, instead of a mournful event. I was told Lindsey made a very beautiful, emotional speech too. (I am sure it included the word 'cycles' a few times)
I was also told that Lindsey did not perform Landslide with Stevie at the AHI benefit because it would have been too difficult for both of them to get through

Confused about two things here -

1.) I thought that Don Henley was at the AHI benefit, not Lindsey.

2.) Was it Lindsey, or Mick, who spoke at the celebration?

irishgrl · #29 08-25-2005, 06:35 AM

Knowing that Lindsey and Jess WERE close, I cant imagine him NOT speaking.

Im glad Jess requested a Wake. Wonderful idea, a Wake.

desrtangl · #30 08-25-2005, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by irishgrl

Knowing that Lindsey and Jess WERE close, I cant imagine him NOT speaking.

Im glad Jess requested a Wake. Wonderful idea, a Wake.

Glad someone posted what this was called...i was racking my brain trying to think of the term...LOL!!! Such a great idea...why would you have a gathering to mourn a death when you can celebrate their life...and such a wonderful live he had!!! I do live here in Phoenix, and I vaiguly remember there being something in the newspaper about his passing, but (stupid me) didn't clip it out!!! I'm surprised LB and stevie didn't sing goodbye baby!!! But she dedicated Landslide to her dad quite a few times in the past didn't she??? So I guess that song is fitting!!!