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![]() No, I'm only stating little Homer's preference! Little Homer doesn't rule Big Homer, however. So far, this time, I've got a good feeling about it. ![]() |
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![]() Hinky? It's slangy, I guess. It means, basically, "not quite right." I've always thought it was kind of a fun word.
BTW, this has reminded me of the hubbub around a John Mayer comment a while ago. There was some controversy over his voiced preference for white girls (or rather, he stated that little John wasn't open to black girls). I'm not saying the issue is identical by any means (race is a social construction, whereas age is not). But it's a fascinating debate, I think--is it okay to have preferences? And how can one voice those preferences? It's not a simple question, and I'm not sure of the answer. But I thought this was an interesting article if anyone wants to do more reading. http://jezebel.com/5469484/its-impos...premacist-dick And, uh, sorry for swerving way off topic, everyone!
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so homer, your phrasing apparently left a very similar impression on a 20yo, 30+yo and 40+yo woman. i don't think that was your intent, but if you don't really want to come accross as some kind of "bragging sexist prick", you may want to consider toning down these types of comments. Last edited by elle; 01-11-2011 at 07:53 PM.. |
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Always remember, the written word, can easily be misconstrued. I think you've taken a couple of things, not in the context in which they were intended. |
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![]() definitely agree. and like i said, mezzoforte stated everything so nicely, from biology to tastes. we all have our preferences. and, i'm very happy that my brother who's your age has a 20+yo gf.
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Because, at least inside, I feel like we're pretty much the same. Believe it or not, I have an innocent, giving, loving heart. I'm confident, but that doesn't mean I still can't be those other things. Last edited by HomerMcvie; 01-12-2011 at 04:23 PM.. |
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![]() I have no problem with age differences between people who are dating, banging, married, whatever. I do have a problem with a woman being judged/written off as unattractive or gross just because she's older, or just because she's overweight.
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![]() Hope it works out well for you both. Really. Although, whatever will you do 17 years (or 25 pounds) from now... |
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![]() The age has never been a problem for me(imagine that). The weight loss, however, was a SHOCK(as we hadn't seen each other for nine months), and I was told, "I no longer find you attractive, now that you're a skinny white boy". It took a couple weeks of getting used to. It's all good, now.
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![]() I don't really have a problem with a little chub, on OTHERS. Honestly. My weight loss, is all for me! My family thinks I'm too thin, but I don't care. I'm where "I" want to be, and that's all that matters.
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![]() Well guys, my last girlfriend was 18 years older than me. We broke up 2 years ago and got together I was 25 and she 42, nearly 43. I met her when she came to my dept to do her phD (and she sure did! - sorry. obvious joke that I had to go for!) I'm older for my age, so I'm told, and we had become good friends before getting together.
We had been friends a couple of months before I actually asked her how old she was because I realised I didn;t know. I COULD NOT believe it when she said 42. She looked 30-32 at the oldest! No-one else in our circle of friends could believe it either. That's what yoga and a good diet will do for you I guess... Oh, and it was the best sex I'e ever had! So far of course... Sidenote: For an older woman you just can;'beat Michelle Pfeiffer. Oh Hell Yeah! That red dress, on the piano, singing Making Whoopee... She still looks great.
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![]() I truly believe, that age is a state of mind. If you've got 3 kids, and a bitch of a spouse(not being gender specific on "bitch"), time is going to take it's toll. If you "believe", in being young, and "live" young, I believe, you will stay young. I'm 19, forever. Your mileage may vary. ![]() And yes, sex is better than ever. At 18, it's REALLY exciting, but you don't know "what" to do, to put it over the top. At 40, it's still really exciting(minus the anxiety!!!!), but you know how to get everything you want, out of it! Last edited by HomerMcvie; 01-14-2011 at 04:47 AM.. |
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Let's hear it for Dani! 40+ is still cool. |
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![]() While I am told that I look young for someone of my advanced age, I would never ever want to be with a much younger man. I think the pressure would just be too much for me. Fortunately I am happily married and won't need to worry about it. I don't have a problem with age differences, but did I ever tell you guys about the client I had? She was 18 and her boyfriend was.......................................................................................wait for it...............................................72. And he was her "best friend's" grandfather.
I am not one to judge, but it really does depend on the situation. This was a really unhealthy situation (I wish I could tell details because it was just so bizarre) and the age gap was not a good thing. |
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