Oh man, How Much Bad Luck With Girls Can A Guy Have????? A Little Help Please!!!

Musicman408 · #1 01-27-2007, 09:11 PM

So, all of you all know that I have ZERO luck with girls. I am shy on the approach but they all say they "love me".

Anyway, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at her vocal lesson. She was really nice, and when I complimented her on her voice, she would always smile and thank me very sweetly. She seemed to like it.

So I found her on MYSPACE and we started talking. She was very supportive of my back surgery and all. I was hoping I would run into her at school, but no such luck. This being said, I was thinking that it would be awkward seeing her again in "real life" after talking to her online.......

A couple of days later, we had a choral concert. I was in the lobby just chillin' and she walks around the corner and sees me. She seemed really happy to see me. We talked awhile and talked about how I wrote songs and she was telling me that I MUST record my songs and give them to her.........

I talked to her a couple of times on MYSPACE after that but since a few days ago, I haven't heard from her AND NOW it says that she is "in a relationship". I know I didn't know her very well, but we really seemed to get along well and I was hoping that we would be seeing more of each other. But I guess not...... What should I do. It is just SOOO frustrating.

Much Love,
Ethan

seeker007nmss · #2 01-27-2007, 09:17 PM

I get that she changed her my space from "single" to "in a relationship"? (Sorry, I am old and never used my space). I think that is your answer - added to the silence. Save yourself some frustration and move on. She gave you her answer with her actions. If she was really interested, you would know.

Musicman408 · #3 01-27-2007, 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seeker007nmss

I get that she changed her my space from "single" to "in a relationship"? (Sorry, I am old and never used my space). I think that is your answer - added to the silence. Save yourself some frustration and move on. She gave you her answer with her actions. If she was really interested, you would know.

Well, I understand what you are saying, but it had been so hard for me to get over the other girl that I was hoping that she would at least keep me from "going back again"....... Oh well

seeker007nmss · #4 01-27-2007, 09:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Musicman408

Well, I understand what you are saying, but it had been so hard for me to get over the other girl that I was hoping that she would at least keep me from "going back again"....... Oh well

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox.

"You Otter not let it get you down"

Musicman408 · #5 01-27-2007, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seeker007nmss

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox.

"You Otter not let it get you down"

Ha ha, thanks that's really cute. And I know they are the ones missing out because I am going to make something great out of myself and they are going to be missing out, but for the meantime, there's a bit of pain. At least it helps write AMAZING music, and my novel is coming along FANTASTICLLY!!!!

Little Nicki · #6 01-27-2007, 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Musicman408

At least it helps write AMAZING music, and my novel is coming along FANTASTICLLY!!!!

And so modest.

GODDESS6 · #7 01-28-2007, 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seeker007nmss

We have all been there. (I know that doesn't help much). And I might not be the right one to respond (I gave up years ago). I think that when the right one comes along, you will know it. Just don't let what happened in the past spoil your future. Remember they are the ones that missed out. And it is their loss, not yours. So, here is a fluff pic, as I get off the old soapbox.

"You Otter not let it get you down"

omg i love that pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~

goldustsongbird · #8 01-27-2007, 09:22 PM

Was she supposed to consult you before getting into a relationship?

You can still be friends with her... can't you?

Musicman408 · #9 01-27-2007, 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by goldustsongbird

Was she supposed to consult you before getting into a relationship?

You can still be friends with her... can't you?

I mean, we just met. Have only really talked in person twice...... But we got along really well and she was very sweet.

Gypsy-Rhiannon · #10 01-28-2007, 05:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Musicman408

So, all of you all know that I have ZERO luck with girls. I am shy on the approach but they all say they "love me".

Anyway, I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at her vocal lesson. She was really nice, and when I complimented her on her voice, she would always smile and thank me very sweetly. She seemed to like it.

So I found her on MYSPACE and we started talking. She was very supportive of my back surgery and all. I was hoping I would run into her at school, but no such luck. This being said, I was thinking that it would be awkward seeing her again in "real life" after talking to her online.......

A couple of days later, we had a choral concert. I was in the lobby just chillin' and she walks around the corner and sees me. She seemed really happy to see me. We talked awhile and talked about how I wrote songs and she was telling me that I MUST record my songs and give them to her.........

I talked to her a couple of times on MYSPACE after that but since a few days ago, I haven't heard from her AND NOW it says that she is "in a relationship". I know I didn't know her very well, but we really seemed to get along well and I was hoping that we would be seeing more of each other. But I guess not...... What should I do. It is just SOOO frustrating.

Much Love,
Ethan

Just because a girl is friendly and chatty with you doesn't mean she wants to date you. If she is such a nice person then you will have to be happy to be friends with her