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View Poll Results: How long before you put out?
First date if I'm attracted! 15 38.46%
Usually the second date... 4 10.26%
Maybe 3rd or 4th date. 6 15.38%
I wait a week at least. 3 7.69%
A Month or longer. 11 28.21%
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Old 03-16-2007, 09:57 PM
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If you REALLY were attracted to someone - what are your rules on sex when dating?
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Old 03-16-2007, 10:01 PM
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depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation
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Old 03-16-2007, 10:02 PM
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depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation
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Old 03-16-2007, 10:03 PM
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depends on how hot one is.

extremely hot...before the first date even begins (what? )
semi-hot...first date
average...a couple dates
below average...when their bank account becomes a topic of conversation
ditto

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vote bitch..
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Imade the current one wait about six months for a kiss - AND they chased me like all get up
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I wait longer than a month or longer (usually longer). None of the guys can seem to hack it, and leave
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Imade the current one wait about six months for a kiss - AND they chased me like all get up
you southern c*ck teaser!
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I went with 3rd or 4th date that seems to be the happy middle ground
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Apparently I don't have any, as I had sex with my boyfriend the second time we met.

I dunno...life is short. If you meet somebody and you both really want it, and neither of you is attached, then go for it. Of course, it's probably a good idea to not have any illusions that it's anything more than a roll in the hay. In my case, it did develop into a "relationship," but it could just as easily not have. And honestly, either way would've been fine with me. Actually, I think a "friends with benefits" arrangement is better for me than a "relationship" anyway.
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Apparently I don't have any, as I had sex with my boyfriend the second time we met.

I dunno...life is short. If you meet somebody and you both really want it, and neither of you is attached, then go for it. Of course, it's probably a good idea to not have any illusions that it's anything more than a roll in the hay. In my case, it did develop into a "relationship," but it could just as easily not have. And honestly, either way would've been fine with me. Actually, I think a "friends with benefits" arrangement is better for me than a "relationship" anyway.
Im surprised @ your standpoint, considering you're a buddhist
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Im surprised @ your standpoint, considering you're a buddhist
Why? I'm not a monk...
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tease

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I've heard worse

I see it like this - if you are only with me because you want to have sex, then move on. The wait is more of a test to see what they really want out of the relationship...
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I'm somewhat old fashioned, I wait a week or so, if not longer (I once dated someone for 2 years before we did the deed).
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