Sh*tty A** weekend

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by michelle2677

Our whole relationship is a big fight. But it's never gone that far. He has never tried to make me afraid of him. Thing is-he KNOWS I can't swim, and am terrified of water. So he said that basically like.."you're not leaving...or hit the road...or water. I think that's pretty ****ty to tell someone to jump in the river and swim back if they want to leave. I don't think I'll get over that. There were a lot of other things said-I was in tears. His birthday was yesterday. We'll see how it goes. I sent a long email apologizing for my part, but he took it way too far and I want to end the friendship, but hopefully we could do it amicably. Sorry you're having a bad time as well. It sucks, doesn't it.

Yeah - he totally went too far. I think it's really really low to use things like known fears and things that have been confided in fights. That's just low - and generally I am a forgiving person - but if someone throws something like that in my face, or uses it to make me afraid etc then I'm less apt to forgive. So I understand where you're coming from.

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

I'm sorry about your ****ty weekend, and the squirrel's too.
Cash just came from his chemo, and there was a lady there, who was putting her 15yo Lab down. He was so stiff, that he could barely walk. She knew it was time to put him down. I still felt so sorry for her. She went in the back with him, and came out about 20 minutes later, crying. She came over, and I held her hand for a couple of minutes, while we both cried for him.

Oh man - that made me all teary I've an elderly dog and I'm not looking forward to that day. How good of you to be there for her though, especially since she was alone...sigh. How's Cash doing?