Say Something About the Person Above You - Page 26

amber · #**376** 01-05-2005, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by sunmaiden

^Don't be greedy, pass the weedy...

====> Isn't following directions for first time, but likes Sunmaiden.

====> Says "i'm not greedy, i'll pass it!"

amber · #**377** 01-05-2005, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by GateandGarden

Thank you for that, Jason. You said it well. I know y'all said you didn't want to make a big issue of this, but I find it really upsetting and this is the only place online I feel I can be completely honest without someone jumping down my throat, or nearly doing that. Curtis would not get upset if someone thought he was straight, and I would not get upset if a guy flirted with me. It's fine.

I'm not going to say "Ewwwwww no! I would never think of a guy that way!" For one, that might be just a tad hurtful to the guy, and secondly, I think we're all lying to ourselves if we say we've never thought of both a guy and a girl in that way at some point in our lives. It's not like I can't look at a guy and say he's sexy. I'm not afraid someone's going to say, "You're straight!" It doesn't really matter.

And I flirted with both Amber and Krista last night (okay, we'll just have to embellish a bit and pretend that what I do can actually be considered flirting) but neither one of them appeared to be remotely offended, and both are heterosexual.

And I won't rack my brains trying to determine the gender and sexual orientation of the person I'm talking to on here. It's always nice to know, but I wouldn't force it out of anyone because I don't see how it's necessary to know. I had a little crush on someone from another message board last summer but I didn't even know the person's gender. I found out a month later that it was a guy. I found it amusing that it had been a guy and I'm a lesbian, but I wasn't repulsed. Even though I would only date girls, it was kind of an eye-opener to me--an indication that it's the person that matters the most, not the gender.

And I'm not angry with you, 1/2 insane. I don't want you to think that. I just really want to get my feelings out and be heard. This subject matter hits oh so close to home.

^am glad you spoke out, and agree with Strandie 100 percent.

Now let's see those HOOTERS!!!!

JK.

GateandGarden · #**378** 01-05-2005, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ½ ¡Ñ§ÅñË ®

Please. Did I say I hated anyone because they were gay? No. The whole thing got started when The Tower made what I thought was a gesture towards me. If it was a mistake I said “I’m sorry.” I even deleted my post. Hell I don’t remember. Can we PLEASE just let it go already. I stated my opinion and that’s all it is. Lets not make something out of it that it doesn’t have to be. I’m sorry Hillary. That’s all I can say is “I’m sorry.” “I’m sorry.” What else do I need to say?

It's okay. Others had their say and I needed to have mine as well.

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Originally Posted by amber

^am glad you spoke out, and agree with Strandie 100 percent. Now let's see those HOOTERS!!!! JK.