The Just Thought I'd Share Thread

[daniellaaarisen]

I hate people. I'm going to say this with the least amount of swearing possible.

A girl that I was really close with for 5 years just messaged me asking to “catch up” after we didn’t talk all year. I defriended her on Facebook quite some time ago. I haven’t spoken to her because she’s absolutely crazy… multiple drug addictions (coke being the most serious), 3 DUIs, numerous eating disorders… all before her 17th birthday. Worst of all, she would CONSTANTLY throw me under the bus to save her own ass, even if I didn't do anything. For instance-- I was DDing a friend home from San Francisco and she wanted to stop by this girl's house, so we did and said hello. This girl told her parents that I had drunkenly driven to their house and I get a text from her mom the next day saying, "if I ever hear that you're driving drunk around my daughter again, I'll call the police." Her mom is a whole different set of crazy ,but I digress...

So I kindly explained that I didn’t have any interest in talking to her but I genuinely hoped she was doing well. Her response?

“Sad to hear you’re still a judgmental fatass.”

a) Bitch, f*ck you.
b) I judge YOU after knowing you for years, after waking up at 4AM to save your ass from juvi, after watching you sabotage your own life time after time after time.
c) I’m extremely, extremely sensitive about the weight thing especially since I had an eating disorder quite some time ago… again, f*ck you.

Seriously I want to stab her right now. I've been having a really rough time with my self-image lately for a variety of reasons and this just made me want to revert back to my "old ways." It's hard enough to balance the line between healthy and unhealthy lifestyle changes when you've known the unhealthy side... I didn't need this too.

Jesus.

[mezzoforte]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

I hate people. I'm going to say this with the least amount of swearing possible.

A girl that I was really close with for 5 years just messaged me asking to “catch up” after we didn’t talk all year. I defriended her on Facebook quite some time ago. I haven’t spoken to her because she’s absolutely crazy… multiple drug addictions (coke being the most serious), 3 DUIs, numerous eating disorders… all before her 17th birthday. Worst of all, she would CONSTANTLY throw me under the bus to save her own ass, even if I didn't do anything. For instance-- I was DDing a friend home from San Francisco and she wanted to stop by this girl's house, so we did and said hello. This girl told her parents that I had drunkenly driven to their house and I get a text from her mom the next day saying, "if I ever hear that you're driving drunk around my daughter again, I'll call the police." Her mom is a whole different set of crazy ,but I digress...

So I kindly explained that I didn’t have any interest in talking to her but I genuinely hoped she was doing well. Her response?

“Sad to hear you’re still a judgmental fatass.”

a) Bitch, f*ck you.
b) I judge YOU after knowing you for years, after waking up at 4AM to save your ass from juvi, after watching you sabotage your own life time after time after time.
c) I’m extremely, extremely sensitive about the weight thing especially since I had an eating disorder quite some time ago… again, f*ck you.

Seriously I want to stab her right now. I've been having a really rough time with my self-image lately for a variety of reasons and this just made me want to revert back to my "old ways." It's hard enough to balance the line between healthy and unhealthy lifestyle changes when you've known the unhealthy side... I didn't need this too.

Jesus.

*hugs*
Danielle, you are beautiful and I hope she didn't make you feel anything less. It's definitely a sign of good mental hygiene that your initial response to her message was tell her to scr*w off (in the nicest way possible), but I completely understand how one negative comment can wound. Stay strong

[daniellaaarisen]

Originally Posted by mezzoforte

*hugs*
Danielle, you are beautiful and I hope she didn't make you feel anything less. It's definitely a sign of good mental hygiene that your initial response to her message was tell her to scr*w off (in the nicest way possible), but I completely understand how one negative comment can wound. Stay strong

Ugh, thank you. I'm trying to channel all of my energy towards loathing her instead of my own self-loathing. So far, it's working pretty well but I'm still freaked out by how terrible she made me feel... I usually laugh at people who say things like that just to get under my skin, but she hit me at a really bad time. I was recently diagnosed with hypothyroidism so this **** isn't entirely my fault. And I'm so physically healthy (strong, etc) so it really shouldn't bother me but it does.

I messaged her back with 7 pictures of her doing something wildly illegal (lines of blow, driving with an open beer in her hand, etc) and said, "I've taken a screen shot of this conversation and I tracked down these pictures. I'm not a malicious person but if you say one ****ty thing to me ever again, you better believe that your mother will get copies, along with our trainers (for horses) and the college you're supposed to attend next year. After the years of crap you've put me through, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Do yourself a favor and back the f*ck off."

[fumidesigns]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Ugh, thank you. I'm trying to channel all of my energy towards loathing her instead of my own self-loathing. So far, it's working pretty well but I'm still freaked out by how terrible she made me feel... I usually laugh at people who say things like that just to get under my skin, but she hit me at a really bad time. I was recently diagnosed with hypothyroidism so this **** isn't entirely my fault. And I'm so physically healthy (strong, etc) so it really shouldn't bother me but it does.

I messaged her back with 7 pictures of her doing something wildly illegal (lines of blow, driving with an open beer in her hand, etc) and said, "I've taken a screen shot of this conversation and I tracked down these pictures. I'm not a malicious person but if you say one ****ty thing to me ever again, you better believe that your mother will get copies, along with our trainers (for horses) and the college you're supposed to attend next year. After the years of crap you've put me through, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Do yourself a favor and back the f*ck off."

Oooooh dayum! U went there huh?! Leave her ugly ass alone. Don't say another word. She's not worth the trouble!

[mylittledemon]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

Her response?

“Sad to hear you’re still a judgmental fatass.”

Her response indicates that your feelings about her were right. Ignore her Dani. Ignore her. Go about business and put her completely out of your life. We can't be friends with everyone.

[Enchanted_Stevi]

JTIS...

That I have 14 days left of school!!! I am SOOOO excited!! Once I graduate I am gonna try and get my license ASAP!!! Ashley's moms hairdresser said I could work in her salon once I'm out of school =D

I am SO sick of school and cant wait to get out on my own and work during the day and have my nights to myself!!!

After today I am SO sick of my job!!!! Can someone tell me how there can be 3 other ppl who do the same thing I do(but on diff days obvs) and NONE of them can work...1 has a Dr. appt(which is acceptable) one wasnt home when I called and the other had to study for finals...EXCUSE ME but my job consists of sitting on you BUTT doing nothing but watching tv or keeping yourself occupied...until the phone or doorbell ring...

The girl who had to "study" is the new girl and is a back up...how is someone suppose to be a back up if they dont BACK YOU UP?!?!? I've asked the new girl MULTIPLE times if she wanted to work for me and EVERY time she said she couldnt...except 1 time when my supervisor called her mom and asked her...She doesnt have any hours this month so obvs I thought it would be nice to offer her a couple...So I vented to the other office lady today because my supervisor(my aunt) was not in today. So the office lady is gonna talk to my aunt tmrw about it.

Like I said I cant wait to get out of there....

[Enchanted_Stevi]

Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen

I hate people. I'm going to say this with the least amount of swearing possible.

A girl that I was really close with for 5 years just messaged me asking to “catch up” after we didn’t talk all year. I defriended her on Facebook quite some time ago. I haven’t spoken to her because she’s absolutely crazy… multiple drug addictions (coke being the most serious), 3 DUIs, numerous eating disorders… all before her 17th birthday. Worst of all, she would CONSTANTLY throw me under the bus to save her own ass, even if I didn't do anything. For instance-- I was DDing a friend home from San Francisco and she wanted to stop by this girl's house, so we did and said hello. This girl told her parents that I had drunkenly driven to their house and I get a text from her mom the next day saying, "if I ever hear that you're driving drunk around my daughter again, I'll call the police." Her mom is a whole different set of crazy ,but I digress...

So I kindly explained that I didn’t have any interest in talking to her but I genuinely hoped she was doing well. Her response?

“Sad to hear you’re still a judgmental fatass.”

a) Bitch, f*ck you.
b) I judge YOU after knowing you for years, after waking up at 4AM to save your ass from juvi, after watching you sabotage your own life time after time after time.
c) I’m extremely, extremely sensitive about the weight thing especially since I had an eating disorder quite some time ago… again, f*ck you.

Seriously I want to stab her right now. I've been having a really rough time with my self-image lately for a variety of reasons and this just made me want to revert back to my "old ways." It's hard enough to balance the line between healthy and unhealthy lifestyle changes when you've known the unhealthy side... I didn't need this too.

Jesus.

Dani, i have to agree with everyone else...**** HER! She obviously has her onw issues and making fun of you makes herself feel better. You dont need ppl like her in your life! I'm glad your doing so well with this and havent resorted back to your old ways <3 Stay strong!!! Your SO pretty and nice and idk why anyone could hate you!!!