Originally Posted by Nikolaj
SilverSprings, I didn't see anything you wrote here that was bothersome, or feel attacked at all, in your PMs.
I did see your (two) PMs today and enjoyed them, and replied, and felt in good humor about it. Judging? I really better re-read the PMs. I thought yours were nice, and I thought I replied that I enjoyed them, and your previous PM of a couple days ago that I was lax in quickly replying to.
I surely didn't feel attacked, I recall writing that I was amused. Guess I'll need to get back to you- is it possible you got another PM, not from me, confused?
Edit: Bee, the more I look at the message above, the more I don't think it was actually from you. Were you hacked? You have never misspelled one word ever to me, in any correspondence, it just isn't "you"- and we never had any disagreement, did we?! Just to be clear, I only enjoyed and wrote back that I enjoyed your messages, I just double checked. Strange.
APerfectLie: I think it's great you support D and I see your points. Farfetched, sure. Right to post photographs without permission of people who don't know she's underage and not legal to be served? Not my business, never was! Won't make that mistake again. To think, though, that 'photos posted on The Ledge stay on The Ledge' is uninformed- once in cyberland, photos can go anywhere they go, by many different sources and for many different reasons. All the time, and not only on The Ledge, but at universities, Borders, Starbucks- private photos become public more often than it seems you're aware of. Someone could type in an advanced search under 'Images'-- 'piercing photo, teenager' and your own photo you just posted, could go anywhere. It is not something to be afraid of, but it is possible, and photos, once on the net, can be everywhere. So, it's not like The Ledge is an island. Funny anyone would think so.
Deflection, by the way, not from you, APL, is the most chosen tool of someone unwilling to see their own accountability- In no way was it I who seemed ridiculous, and I have had to clear my mailbox twice with notes of support.
Still, I wish her support and happiness.
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