The Just Thought I'd Share Thread

[GypsySorcerer]

Originally Posted by jannieC

On a lighter note, I am slightly embarrassed to say that the "talk" I am giving today is only a (long) introduction! I am introducing a client of mine who is reading a (beautiful) poem she wrote. She is reading it in front of about 100 women who form an organization in our community- this organization raises a LOOOOOT of money for our non-profit agency and the luncheon is being held at one of my coommunity's most posh country clubs. I am nervous because I want to give my client a seriously awesome introduction. SHE is the one who is brave and bad-ass! I'm just her silly therapist.

I am sure you did just fine. I think it's easier to talk about someone else than oneself. Personal, sincere introductions are always the best.

Since we're on the topic of public speaking, thank the stars that this semester is (almost) over for me. I taught three sections of public speaking, with 25 students enrolled in each course. During the semester, one kid ran out in the middle of her speech in tears, another passed out in front of the class, and another was on the verge of a panic attack. NEVER again am I teaching 3 sections of this course in one semester!

[Silver Springs]

Originally Posted by GypsySorcerer

I am sure you did just fine. I think it's easier to talk about someone else than oneself. Personal, sincere introductions are always the best.

Since we're on the topic of public speaking, thank the stars that this semester is (almost) over for me. I taught three sections of public speaking, with 25 students enrolled in each course. During the semester, one kid ran out in the middle of her speech in tears, another passed out in front of the class, and another was on the verge of a panic attack. NEVER again am I teaching 3 sections of this course in one semester!

*Blush* I did that during my last seminar, I was that panic stricken. Talking in front of people en masse is one of my biggest fears. I'm trying to get over it by not thinking so much about what I have to say before I actually start the seminar, but it's still horrible.

[jannieC]

My client received a standing ovation. It was SO powerful and so healing for her.

The adoption stories above really remind me how glad I am that I am in an open adoption. My daughter will never grow up wondering.

[GypsySorcerer]

Originally Posted by Silver Springs

*Blush* I did that during my last seminar, I was that panic stricken. Talking in front of people en masse is one of my biggest fears. I'm trying to get over it by not thinking so much about what I have to say before I actually start the seminar, but it's still horrible.

Most people (around 80%) have some apprehension about public speaking. I try to really encourage good preparation and rehearsal; we try deep breathing, etc. I firmly believe that everyone can become a competent speaker. A great orator- perhaps not, but effective.

One thing that is particularly alarming to me is the number of communication majors who hate public speaking. WTF?