What do you notice FIRST in a man?

[michelle2677]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

It's AWFUL! I used to be much like you described - I'd get crushes often and they were intense. I so miss that.

The last one was in DC, he was about 15 years older than me (I also like them older) and good GOD that was intense...but oh so much fun! I guess after that something in me died

I really don't know - but since then I've not met one person male or female who really "melts my butter"

me too I'm not saying I wouldn't make an exception, but I don't think I've ever dated anyone younger than me.
they would have to be either really hot, or really rich

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by michelle2677

me too I'm not saying I wouldn't make an exception, but I don't think I've ever dated anyone younger than me.
they would have to be either really hot, or really rich

Oh oddly enough though I've always been wildly attracted to older men the one guy I dated the longest (about three years) was younger than me, though only a year...but still...I look back with a big fat "what the hell was I thinking"...sigh.

And at this point hell I'd like to notice and be attracted to anyone...because my complete lack of interest is starting to worry me.