What do you notice FIRST in a man?

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by catinthedark

geez. what is that like? i am the biggest flirt in the world - it's like an addiction. i have a very long distance boyfriend - across an ocean - with no firm, firm commitment (therefore, freedom!) - but i also have a huge, crazy, huge crush on someone middle distance away, who i've had said crush on now for almost 18 months!! sigh. i love him. and i met someone yesterday, and was like, hmmmm..... he was married but seriously, i am so attracted to so many men - most of them about 10-15 years older than me. the BF across the ocean is my age, and we may actually wind up married one day. but that doesn't mean i don't notice every other guy around. too much fun!

It's AWFUL! I used to be much like you described - I'd get crushes often and they were intense. I so miss that.

The last one was in DC, he was about 15 years older than me (I also like them older) and good GOD that was intense...but oh so much fun! I guess after that something in me died

I really don't know - but since then I've not met one person male or female who really "melts my butter"