Orientation Poll

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by buckymcnix

wait wait wait -
i thought you were commited??
or is he there too you cheeky little monkey??

OH!
I will not share you with anyone.....

[estranged4life]

that I have been married to the same woman since 1993, so noone needs my input.

[ryan8472]

Originally Posted by BlackWidow

OH!
I will not share you with anyone.....

Cheating on me!?

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by ryan8472

Cheating on me!?

Ry Ry..my little puppy.

[RavenOfRhiannon]

Perfect Kinsey 6. Totally Gay.

I have been with the same guy for 12 years now and I know how it feels to have people 'threatened' by a long term relationship. Our single friends aren't accustomed to people with our track record and the couple friends we do have are usually so new into their relationship, they are not very sociable.

[LikeAWillow]

I voted myself as bi but like almost every man or woman on here attracted to both sexes, I can't stand the label. And you know, for me, it isn't because I've been told that bisexuality is just the last step before coming out, no...I get told that I'm just experimenting before I end up in a straight relationship permanently. "It's a phase, it's a rebellion," or so most of the people around me would like to believe who aren't in my closest circle of friends. To slightly paraphrase a lovely little gay fluff pic, "But she's a cheerleader!", she can't like women! Well you know, just because the people here can't seem to break their stereotype of what a lesbian or bisexual is certainly doesn't mean that I'm going to suddenly cease being one. To be honest, I'm 70:30 in terms of my attractions...and that 70% favors women.

[seeker007nmss]

Originally Posted by LikeAWillow

To slightly paraphrase a lovely little gay fluff pic,

A lovely little gay FLUFF pic?

"I am not gay, I am just FAB-U-LOUS!"

[LikeAWillow]

Originally Posted by seeker007nmss

A lovely little gay FLUFF pic?

"I am not gay, I am just FAB-U-LOUS!"

I love it. Don't make fun of this cat though, or he might just pop a cap in your ass.

[seeker007nmss]

I am not afraid, My HomeKitty has my back!

[Mari]

I couldn't tell what percentages go for me, really! There's just so many different reasons why I feel attracted to someone, and whether I'd like to have a relationship or not. I gave up wondering/worrying about the male-female thing a few years ago. I just know I'll never be completely gay or straight. What's the big deal

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by LikeAWillow

I voted myself as bi but like almost every man or woman on here attracted to both sexes, I can't stand the label. And you know, for me, it isn't because I've been told that bisexuality is just the last step before coming out, no...I get told that I'm just experimenting before I end up in a straight relationship permanently. "It's a phase, it's a rebellion," or so most of the people around me would like to believe who aren't in my closest circle of friends. To slightly paraphrase a lovely little gay fluff pic, "But she's a cheerleader!", she can't like women! Well you know, just because the people here can't seem to break their stereotype of what a lesbian or bisexual is certainly doesn't mean that I'm going to suddenly cease being one. To be honest, I'm 70:30 in terms of my attractions...and that 70% favors women.

Well there's an interesting double standard of sorts with bisexuality and men and women.

For men it's the last stop before gaytown.

For women? It's the last stop before straightown....

At least that's how it seems. Either way - it's annoying.

[Johnny Stew]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

Well there's an interesting double standard of sorts with bisexuality and men and women.

For men it's the last stop before gaytown.

For women? It's the last stop before straightown....

At least that's how it seems. Either way - it's annoying.

There have been studies that show that men who identify themselves as bisexual in their teens and twenties, on average, ultimately identify themselves as exclusively homosexual later on.

But, of course, they're only dealing with averages there, and every individual is different.

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by Johnny Stew

There have been studies that show that men who identify themselves as bisexual in their teens and twenties, on average, ultimately identify themselves as exclusively homosexual later on.

But, of course, they're only dealing with averages there, and every individual is different.

I agree. It's hard to see that when you're in your twenties.

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by Johnny Stew

There have been studies that show that men who identify themselves as bisexual in their teens and twenties, on average, ultimately identify themselves as exclusively homosexual later on.

But, of course, they're only dealing with averages there, and every individual is different.

Oh I know...and I know there's evidence to back up these "stereotypes" but for those of us who don't fall into that it's somewhat frustrating.

Originally Posted by golddustsongbird

Sixth ****ing grade? Get out. I agree with wanting to connect with someone who isn't a psycho, though.

Sixth grade, I kid you not...though actually my sister has not had to deal with that this school year - but last year she kept busting boys for paying girls to make out...the girls would also get busted


Someone not psycho lol...this is where my standards have landed...oh and someone who's not a bloody liar would also be a plus.