Orientation Poll

[DrummerDeanna]

YOu know, I just thought of something else - some of the stuff I touched on and some of the stuff said in this thread is what makes me HATE HATE HATE the term bisexual. Which I do.

I hate labels, which in turn sounds sort of flaky...but you say bisexual people think you're either confused, chicken ****, a slut/whore or gay. It gets annoying...I'm none of those things...

[foxyluva]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

YOu know, I just thought of something else - some of the stuff I touched on and some of the stuff said in this thread is what makes me HATE HATE HATE the term bisexual. Which I do.

I hate labels, which in turn sounds sort of flaky...but you say bisexual people think you're either confused, chicken ****, a slut/whore or gay. It gets annoying...I'm none of those things...

Agreed! I hate labels in a big way, in fact, I had this same conversation with Bill (buckymcnix) last week...

[BlackWidow]

Originally Posted by foxyluva

Agreed! I hate labels in a big way, in fact, I had this same conversation with Bill (buckymcnix) last week...

Bill made a choice though...

[goldustsongbird]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

YOu know, I just thought of something else - some of the stuff I touched on and some of the stuff said in this thread is what makes me HATE HATE HATE the term bisexual. Which I do.

I hate labels, which in turn sounds sort of flaky...but you say bisexual people think you're either confused, chicken ****, a slut/whore or gay. It gets annoying...I'm none of those things...

Remember what I once said about the popular bisexuals? The girls who get drunk at parties and think because they've kissed their best friend that they must be ~zomg bi~? That annoys me, and is what turns me off. I don't like the term bisexual either, but I guess it's the only thing I fit under if I've gotta be categorized. I'm attracted to men and women... Sometimes women more.

[Wild_Heart03]

honey, I'm so gay I make Cher say "tone it down."

only not... most people don't even know until I tell them.

[HejiraNYC]

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by goldustsongbird

Remember what I once said about the popular bisexuals? The girls who get drunk at parties and think because they've kissed their best friend that they must be ~zomg bi~? That annoys me, and is what turns me off. I don't like the term bisexual either, but I guess it's the only thing I fit under if I've gotta be categorized. I'm attracted to men and women... Sometimes women more.

I HATE that too...and then then think they're bi and therefore **** over the next girl that comes around...ok...so I got tangled up with a girl who claimed to bi but as it turned out so was not.

It's becoming more common too - I mean look at Girls Gone Wild - it's all about college girls getting drunk and making out with each other...it's horrid. And only adds to the flakiness of the term "bi"

[goldustsongbird]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

I HATE that too...and then then think they're bi and therefore **** over the next girl that comes around...ok...so I got tangled up with a girl who claimed to bi but as it turned out so was not.

It's becoming more common too - I mean look at Girls Gone Wild - it's all about college girls getting drunk and making out with each other...it's horrid. And only adds to the flakiness of the term "bi"

GGW makes me laugh when I see the commercials for it, but they're so full of it. They get wasted and act like dickheads, but then go and complain about how they were exploited and blah blah blah here's a lawsuit.

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by goldustsongbird

GGW makes me laugh when I see the commercials for it, but they're so full of it. They get wasted and act like dickheads, but then go and complain about how they were exploited and blah blah blah here's a lawsuit.

GGW makes me sick.

That and other things like it are having horrible repercussions in society methinks. I know, I know, many here get pissed/annoyed when people blame media for societal woes...but my sister teaches sixth grade and she's caught no less than three different pairs of girls making out because the boys paid them....

When asked where they even though to do that....they almost always say tv...it's sad.

Anyway...I'm completely hypocritical because I am so wary of any woman who claims to be bi, and I have trouble dating them...because I've been screwed over one too many times...the whole "sexual orientation" game gets old after a while....really I'd just like to find someone I connect with who is not a psycho.

[bretonbanquet]

Straight guy here

[amber]

Originally Posted by bretonbanquet

Straight guy here

We better capture and tag you, so we can track your movements. It's important that we study endangered Ledge species so that we can better understand them and their habitat, and perhaps gain insight as to why their numbers are so low...

[goldustsongbird]

Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

GGW makes me sick.

That and other things like it are having horrible repercussions in society methinks. I know, I know, many here get pissed/annoyed when people blame media for societal woes...but my sister teaches sixth grade and she's caught no less than three different pairs of girls making out because the boys paid them....

When asked where they even though to do that....they almost always say tv...it's sad.

Anyway...I'm completely hypocritical because I am so wary of any woman who claims to be bi, and I have trouble dating them...because I've been screwed over one too many times...the whole "sexual orientation" game gets old after a while....really I'd just like to find someone I connect with who is not a psycho.

Sixth ****ing grade? Get out. I agree with wanting to connect with someone who isn't a psycho, though.