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[Brwn_eyes0511]

Originally Posted by strandinthewind

I just want to see you open that jar of olives

the classic test!

[Jyqm]

Originally Posted by Brwn_eyes0511

ths thread is pointlsesssss

If the point of the thread was to get you to complain that a thread was pointless so that I could laugh out loud in sweet, delicious irony, then mission accomplished.

[ryan8472]

Originally Posted by Brwn_eyes0511

ths thread is pointlsesssss

If you haven't noticed by now, a lot of threads around here are pointless.

[Wild_Heart03]

Originally Posted by ryan8472

If you haven't noticed by now, a lot of threads around here are pointless.

lol, so true.... it's part of The Ledge's charm.

[irishgrl]

Originally Posted by Brwn_eyes0511

I like th pole!


and im alitttttle drunk!!!!

he's slurring his writing, how cute

So Brwn_eyes, do you have a hangover today?

here's a pic to make you puke:

[GateandGarden]

Originally Posted by Wild_Heart03

lol, so true.... it's part of The Ledge's charm.

Nick, I love your avatar and I love "Little Lies" Christine in your sig.

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Originally Posted by ryan8472

If you haven't noticed by now, a lot of threads around here are pointless.

Sorry, I was drunk when I wrote that last night a little....

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Originally Posted by irishgrl

he's slurring his writing, how cute

So Brwn_eyes, do you have a hangover today?

here's a pic to make you puke:

My head hurts....yes!

[Brwn_eyes0511]

Originally Posted by ReFleetwoodMac

Let's build on the educational shockfest that we have going here. Why is it that only the homosexuals like the nice looking female celebrities? Like Britney Spears or Stevie Nicks. If a male is a big fan of one of these two, it seems that it's shockingly likely that they are gay. I never knew that liking females was so gay.

That's actually a stereotype, but a lot of the times true. I suppose gay men like strong/successful yet sometimes "tragic" figures...IE. Judy Garland, Liza Minnelli....

[Johnny Stew]

Originally Posted by Brwn_eyes0511

That's actually a stereotype, but a lot of the times true. I suppose gay men like strong/successful yet sometimes "tragic" figures...IE. Judy Garland, Liza Minnelli....

While it's not true in every case, gay men... on some level or another... often identify with strong female celebrities who have faced and/or have overcome various adversities.

Plus, we relate to the struggles of those who have always been unfairly considered "the weaker sex," as they try to rise above that to make their own place in the world.

And when it comes to someone like Stevie, we can additionally relate to her lyrics of unrequited love and doomed romances... something that permeates the lives of most gay men from the time they're old enough to have their first same-gender crush.

[KarmaContestant]

Originally Posted by ReFleetwoodMac

Why is it that homosexual males are attracted other effeminate males? Why not just spring for the real thing and go after the female? I would think that if you're going to do the homosexual thing, you would want to get the most out of it and get regular males, not female impersonators.

I have wondered this many times. However, I am a homosexual man, and I do not like the femmy types. At all. I think they're annoying and ridiculous - and to be honest, I have always believed it was just an effected behavior, caused in part by environmental stimulation. Effected for so long that it becomes the norm, and thus, a huge turnoff.

Granted, all gay men have a slightly effeminate quality to them...which is part of the appeal as well. I don't know! It's hard to explain!

A female impersonator out of her costume can be an exceptionally masculine creature, indeed. Do not ever let the wig and dress fool you.

[RavenOfRhiannon]

A Lot of my friends are effeminate, and I love them just the same. My BF happens to be a very masculine type, but in the end it doesn't matter, as I would love him even if he starting flailing his wrist around.

(I know plenty of heterosexual men who are married to women some might consider manly)

[sparky]

Originally Posted by KarmaContestant

I have wondered this many times. However, I am a homosexual man, and I do not like the femmy types. At all. I think they're annoying and ridiculous - and to be honest, I have always believed it was just an effected behavior, caused in part by environmental stimulation. Effected for so long that it becomes the norm, and thus, a huge turnoff.

Socialization. I have seen guys move to LA and turn into queens before my eyes, because all their new friends act that way.

Granted, all gay men have a slightly effeminate quality to them...[which is part of the appeal as well. I don't know! It's hard to explain!

Not in my more recent experience. The further I have gotten away from the trendy young weho type crowd (which I never was really a part of anyway)and into just doing things I like, I find I have met a number of men who don't take part in "gay culture" at all. And they are just normal guys. Completely masculine. Being gay doesn't define them and they hardly give it a second thought. Works for me.

I have friends who are full on flamers, and friends who can not elicit a glance in small town truck stop. Takes all kinds.

[ryan8472]

I dunno...I act a little bit effeminate. Not overly so, but in some ways. It's just how I am though, I don't *try* to act like that or anything. My "boyfriend" acts similarly too.

[dissention]

My friend Nick is as effeminate as they come. Queeny with a capital Q. I love him to death, but I can't say that I would find it attractive in a partner or a phuck buddy. It would drive me nuts and probably make me flaccid.