Pathetic and self indulgent post here

[WildInTheWind]

If it were me I would probably go. Then again, it depends on what happened in the relationship and why you guys aren't together. But maybe you should go just to check out why she wants to see you. If it were me, the curiousity alone would make me go!

[Serendipity]

I have to make an almost identical decision right now. My "head" advice would be dont go. Seeing someone who you miss and think about, it makes the reasons that you know are the right ones for not being together seem like they dont matter. But they do. If you know its going to be a headtrip and you dont want it, do the best thing for yourself and stay away. However, my "heart" advice would be, you dont know until you try. Maybe you can just be friends, maybe it'll lead to closure. But then, maybe not.

I give rubbish advice, I dont know what I want to do either if it helps tho. Whatever you decide, best of luck with it.

~Nicki