Curses

[lagringader&r]

Originally Posted by sodascouts

All I meant by "getting a thick skin" was not being so quick to take personal offense. You are a sweet girl and I think many times you believe people are trying to insult you when they're not.

Good point. I've had it happen a few times here and have been called every name in the book (not always here so everybody can see it), been gay-bashed by two gay guys (LOL and I'm not even gay), put on an ignore list by somebody I never fought with and read the riot act more than a few times so I'm paranoid now I guess. I see it happening with others too and it pisses me off more than cursing ever could. Lack of compassion, that is. That's the thing that can't get fixed by a moderator. Sorry but real life lately has taught me that compassion goes a long way and I think that goes for off AND on line. There. I'm done. I have no problem cleaning up my potty mouth for this message board. I was pointing out (and it's only my opinion) that I could deal with a few four letter words coz they're just words. The other **** is more of an immediate thing, in my opinion. That's what I meant.

On edit: Only one of the guys gay-bashed me. The other one was just insulting. I just typed that in wrong.