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08-16-2005, 02:14 PM
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Bless your heart, Deanna, good lord! You gotta cut her loose before you really hurt her and hate yourself for it. Sounds like you've already come to that conclusion though. I hate having to cut off friendships, I am such a loyal person but at times it has been to my own detriment. No more!
Also, I wouldn't say anything to her. Just avoid, avoid, avoid. I once broke off a dating relationship very honestly and it went very poorly. He tried to talk me out of everything I said and I wound up feeling like a turd. It was horrible, I should have done it over email or something since we didn't have a relationship or anything. I was just trying to do the right thing or something. I won't ever do that again.
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08-16-2005, 03:59 PM
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Wow! I've never had anyone try to talk me out of a breakup - well except the last friend I friend-dumped. BUT we're friend again  She did change a lot (as did I) since our friend break-up and we're really far away from each other now which is great - But I have/had way more invested in that person than I do in current dumb girl.Yeah - I'm not going to say anything - but should I if she asks?? See - when I went to NM in June I left her house/pet sitting beacuse she was out of work and really really needed the money... Now the dog was alive when I returned and my apartment hadn't been burned down -but her complete lack of common sense left several things needing to be straightened out... THEN THEN I'm talking to a friend, Jason and I said something about this girl - and he was like, "Oh so you heard about Saturday then." And I said, "no...what?" And he was like.."Um...oh. Uh - nevermind. Let *name protected* tell you." But I pried it out of him.. SHe TOTALLY broke my computer - didn't tell me - and called him to come fix it  urg.Anwyay - last weekend she brought that up again and asked if I was still mad at her (I've been acting quite aloof as mentioned) and i was like.."oh I didn't even remember that..." I wanted to say, "No - I'm not mad I just can't stand you." But didn't Ok....see? This bitching helps Anyway - I just called friend I like and told her I'm not going to dinner this week  She's coming over on Friday - I'll tell her why then.
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08-16-2005, 04:04 PM
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 good! maybe a lesson in all of this is say what you really want to say when you want to say it... dont hold back deanna else youve got suckups that fall for your sweetways (however unintentional)
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08-16-2005, 04:05 PM
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If girl asks, I'd be like "you know, no offense or anything, but we just don't seem to click." Hopefully that'll do it.
But she'll probably say "I don't get it." In which case you're screwed. 
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08-16-2005, 04:07 PM
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Girl: *blank stare* I don't know what that means... Me: It means I want you to die. I'm TOTALLY kidding...I don't want her to die...but see??? The more I hang around with her/don't cut ties - the worse I seem to get in terms of meanness...I hate it...I'm really not that mean... 
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08-16-2005, 04:11 PM
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"Do not be afraid! I am Esteban de la Sexface!" "In order to live free and happily, you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice" Whehyll I can do EHYT!! Wehyll I can make it WAHN moh thihme! (wheyllit'sA reayllongwaytogooo! To say goodbhiiy!) -
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08-16-2005, 04:21 PM
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I think I just peed my pants laughing. 
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08-16-2005, 04:33 PM
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that poor lil lost puppy...i can invision her looking for your house...knocking each door to find her dear deanna...
hey i work at a college...and i just saw a girl wearing her jeans inside out...yes inside out...is that the new style? maybe you could start doing little bizarre things like that? ya know, more so than usual...or would she like it?
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08-16-2005, 04:51 PM
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seriously...
1. Picture yourself near a stream.
2. Birds are softly chirping in the cool mountain air. 3. No one knows your secret place. 4. You are in total seclusion from the hectic place called the world. 5. The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity. 6. The water is crystal clear. 7. You can easily make out the face of the person you are holding underwater. 8. See. You're smiling already.
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08-16-2005, 05:00 PM
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If she does push harder say something like, "When I am around you I get irritable and angry and I don't like myself when I get like that." That makes it about you. If she still pushes just walk away. Seriously, she's gotta get it at some point. 
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~Suzy
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08-16-2005, 05:07 PM
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Well one would think! lol - I don't see it happening though - I see her hounding poor 3rd girl - trying to figure out why I don't talk to her anymore - of if I'm mad at her...ugh - that's what she did after the house sitting incident. Blah - anyway - yeah I'm going to just silently slip away - I mean I'm hoping because of my behavior as of late that she'll let me go - if she insists on asking me me why - then I'll be nice but honest 
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08-16-2005, 04:10 PM
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"I don't know what that means" great, now I hate her.
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"Do not be afraid! I am Esteban de la Sexface!" "In order to live free and happily, you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice" Whehyll I can do EHYT!! Wehyll I can make it WAHN moh thihme! (wheyllit'sA reayllongwaytogooo! To say goodbhiiy!) -
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