What should I do/rant

[DrummerDeanna]

Originally Posted by Johnny Stew

It's very sweet that it concerns you so much, and that you want to do the right thing. Most people wouldn't care at all.

Do you think maybe a little time away from her might help? Or maybe trying to just smile and respond politely when she says something daft, and reminding yourself not to let it get to you?

I know it's so much easier to say when you're not in the middle of the situation though.

I have seriously tried both of those things I think that after posting the initial post - and just getting this all out has made me see that I Just need to say goodbye to our weekly dinners and then just go out with th egirl I like once in a while.

The other girl has said she dreads getting stuck alone with the other one too...ugh - I don't know.