Random Thoughts/Express Yourself

[lagringader&r]

Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

Why do they cheat?

* Because they can.
* They have a compulsion.
* Sexual addiction.
* Looking for a thrill.
* Unhappily married.
* Wife is frigid.
* Know they can get away with it and have no conscience. (these are the very scary ones)

I don't know. Is any reason really good enough?

I'm not an old-fashioned kind of girl , but that is one thing that really turns me off. Taking the reasons one by one:
Compulsion: How many men actually have a sexual compulsion? Is that common?
Sexual addiction: Isn't that the same thing?
Looking for a thrill: This one I totally buy.
Unhappily married: And this one might be the biggest.
Wife is frigid: Why do women become frigid? (random thought again) Could it be that their husbands have them so beaten down with worry and pressure that they become frigid?
Know they can get away with it and have no conscience: I think some men are so careful about premeditating it and setting it up (the affair). You're right. These are the scariest ones.

I don't know and maybe I'm making it too simple, but why get married at all if you're just going to want to bang someone else? It seems like a like of trouble and expense to go to just to find someone else to f*ck around with.