trump's 3 rd wife

**SisterNightroad** · #1 07-22-2016, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by iamnotafraid

My wife Candice Swanepoel (she didn't take my last name) is
very secure in our relationship. No suspicions.

You're both very lucky.

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The cheating thing, I was asking you. None of this person
to person thing.

Then I didn't understand your question. What do you mean with "At what point does it become cheating?"

iamnotafraid · #2 07-22-2016, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by SisterNightroad

Then I didn't understand your question. What do you mean with "At what point does it become cheating?"

If you're in a relationship what would you
consider cheating?

In other words. Where's the line to cross
to where it becomes cheating?

Kind of personal I know. But you usually
give good answers.

**SisterNightroad** · #3 07-22-2016, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by iamnotafraid

If you're in a relationship what would you
consider cheating?

In other words. Where's the line to cross
to where it becomes cheating?

Kind of personal I know. But you usually
give good answers.

I don't have a personal answer to this, in my very young life it still hasn't happened to me.

However it's true that it varies from person to person and new technologies are influencing this area as well, for example there's a great gap between those who consider sexting cheating and those who consider as cheating sexual exchanges through phone conversations and video.

There's a incredibly slight cultural difference however between men and women in what they consider cheating, and it is that men are usually a little more sensitive to sexual cheating and women are a little more sensitive toward emotional cheating. Like, would it be worse to hear that your significant other has had sex with another men/woman or that s/he has fallen in love with someone else, and thus isn't in love with you anymore? And obviously there are also those cases in which it's both of them. Obviously both men and women suffer the same in both cases but our culture enables this small gap.

Personally I think the cheating starts with the first lie. For example, from a clinical point of view, a typical scenario could be: a man/woman meets someone that likes them, is clearly interested in them and strokes their ego. Obviously nothing happens but having some light and fun conversation, and the other person may even be informed of the fact that they already are in a relationship, so the man/woman think "This is good. I'm not doing anything bad but having some innocent fun so it's not necessary to stop". Their significant other may be jealous, so they may not find necessary to tell him/her of their new acquaintance, after all they're not doing anyhting bad and it would only uselessly worry their partner; in fact it may be even seem to the man/woman that they're hiding it to do a favour to their significant other.
And that's how auto-justification strikes. It's a thin line then to cross over. At that point it isn't really cheating but when a person enables himself/herself so much it's almost impossible to go back. That's the first step.

iamnotafraid · #4 07-22-2016, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by SisterNightroad

I don't have a personal answer to this, in my very young life it still hasn't happened to me.

Like, would it be worse to hear that your significant other has had sex with another men/woman or that s/he has fallen in love with someone else, and thus isn't in love with you anymore?

I didn't realize you were so young.

I hope this comes as a complement, but you write older
than your years. Whatever year that is.

I think, speaking as a man that one type of cheating hurts
the ego. The other type hurts the heart.

**SisterNightroad** · #5 07-23-2016, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by iamnotafraid

I didn't realize you were so young.

I hope this comes as a complement, but you write older
than your years. Whatever year that is.

Yes, actually I'm like an old woman inside the body of a girl of twenty-cough. I like generally passing the time napping, reading and sipping tea or infusions while judging others.

iamnotafraid · #6 07-24-2016, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by SisterNightroad

Yes, actually I'm like an old woman inside the body of a girl of twenty-cough.

I like generally passing the time napping, reading and sipping tea or infusions while judging others.

If you're coughing at twenty (something) wait until
you hit thirty.

That Italian way of life sounds good. But you might
want to read The Little Red Hen. Just make sure it's
the one illustrated by J.P. Miller.

becca · #7 07-24-2016, 02:01 PM

I know it's meant to point out ironically Trump making a point of loyalty, but I remember thinking back when there was all this news and investigations of Bill Clinton's dumb affairs with women that I really only care if someone can do their job. Short of breaking a law I really could care not at all about politicians' personal lives or the airing of these things either as positives or negatives. I don't think less of Trump for having three marriages or more of someone else for having one or none. I don't want personalities for me to like or to love or to hate... I just want someone who can do the job and says they will do it the ways I most think are best. Then again I never watch stuff like TMZ or buy People magazine etc.

Just some thoughts sparked here. If outsiders are fashionable I have never felt more like one.

**SisterNightroad** · #8 07-24-2016, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by becca

I know it's meant to point out ironically Trump making a point of loyalty, but I remember thinking back when there was all this news and investigations of Bill Clinton's dumb affairs with women that I really only care if someone can do their job. Short of breaking a law I really could care not at all about politicians' personal lives or the airing of these things either as positives or negatives. I don't think less of Trump for having three marriages or more of someone else for having one or none. I don't want personalities for me to like or to love or to hate... I just want someone who can do the job and says they will do it the ways I most think are best. Then again I never watch stuff like TMZ or buy People magazine etc.

Just some thoughts sparked here. If outsiders are fashionable I have never felt more like one.

I agree with you but on another note a politician personal life does tells something about how he does his job. Would it really be OK for a president to be an excellent president but in his private life he is an alcoholic/drug addicted/sex addicted/serial gambler etc? More than enything would a thing like this even be possible?
Even a "light" mistake like that of Clinton could have make him corruptible, and a president shouldn't be of all things corruptible.
But here I'm even not talking about mistakes, those are human, I'm talking about ways of life that condition and in turn are conditioned by one's work. We have someone that changes wife to the new model after a certain number of years and talks about loyalty and values. Inserted in his overall boasting, superficial, histrionic, susceptible, moody, exploiting, envious personality this paint someone that is ill-suited to such a power position.