TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness!

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Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Oh, believe me, the first night they showed up, I WAS PISSED. Who the fukc invited THEM? They were 18 and 19.
Unfortunately, we hit it off, big time. Besties, almost immediately. So we made the deal that they could come, as long as they spent the night(in another bedroom). They were not allowed to leave, if they drank. But then their friends were starting showing up, and it just got to be too much. And you can't explain to an 18yo, who has no job, or anything, how I could lose EVERYTHING. They just don't understand.

And since this is TMI...they were the ones who INSTIGATED the orgy. Then pissy and in denial, the next day. Things got ugly. We have since buried the hatchet, and they've asked if they can come party here, but I've made excuses, every time they've asked.

Yep, this year's rule is - absolutely NO ONE under 21. I will be 100% clear, on this. No exceptions.

Yeah. Just say no, dude.

Originally Posted by camchristo

More than likely, those young people are using you for a cool place to hang out and free booze. The sure sign of people who are not good friends are those that will come to your place every night, eat and drink and never reciprocate or offer to bring anything.

Figure out who your true friends are and have them over. Then you won't have to stress about any of the above.

I'm with Cammie.

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Hey, Cammie, let me ax you this? My friend and I were discussing the liability issue, the other day.
If one makes a party BYOB, does that reduce the liability for the host? I would certainly think so.

I know you didn't ask me, but reduce? Hmmm. Maybe. But it certainly wouldn't eliminate it.

Originally Posted by HomerMcvie

Check ur FB PM's.

I'm not necessarily talking about minors. People in general. If they BTOB, and get arrested after leaving, does the fact that they got themselves drunk, with their own booze, lessen the liability on my end?
I would think the fact that I only provided a pool, and no liquor, would free me of liability, unless they were OBVIOUSLY drunk, when leaving.

I don' t think you'd be totally FREE of all liability. I could be wrong though.


Speaking of BC pills - I changed to a different brand about 6 months ago & haven't had a period since. I'm not complaining or anything but it IS a bit odd. At first I was so scared I took like 3 pregnancy tests. My GYN assured me there's nothing to worry about physically, so I guess I'll just keep on keepin' on.