Is 4 Months After A Spouse's Death too Soon?

[HomerMcvie]

It's different for different people.
My aunt died 2 years and 3 months ago, and my uncle still can't even consider it.
I think it depends on the marriage. Some are marriages of convenience, and some, you're married to your soulmate. Obviously, the former would be easier to move past.
Also to consider - some people just can't stand being alone, and would rather try to have "something", than be alone.