Your New Year's resolution..??

[sparky]

Originally Posted by ontheEdgeof17

He says he is trying to quit, but I haven't seen effort. It got unbearable in NYC. I stayed in a smoking hotel room and sat in smoking sections of places. They were even smoking in the car. I try not to say anything cuz he already knows....for months now.....and he still does it in front of my face. He even smoked 5 minutes before midnight...right before we kissed.

That seems rude. I dated people before who didn't smoke, and never once did we stay in smoking rooms or eat in smoking restaurants. Hell, those places are skanky. I can go outside to smoke. And would never smoke in the truck. I always asked if I was unsure. I mean, sheesh. I respect the fact that others don't want to deal with it. That being said, I have had bf types want me to quit or cut down. Which never bothered me. They understood I was gonna stop when I wanted to and it was never a deal breaker for them. I didn't hide it, so they knew it was part of the guy they were getting.

It's a tough call man. But it sounds to me like it isn't just the smokes. Sounds like it's becoming a power struggle.