Who was more f**ked up?

[strandinthewind]

Originally Posted by GateandGarden

So, if someone says that he or she has simply never had a sex drive, one is to say that he or she is abnormal? Sorry but I don't want to say that because it sounds judgmental to me.

Biology is never judgemental.

I think you are coming at it from a personal and not biological perspective. it is abnormal from a biological perspective just as not being able to see, hear, walk, talk, etc. is abnormal. We are hard wired to be able to do those things.

From a personal or subjective state. Yes, it would be judgemental (good or bad) to assume this person's biological abnormality (if that is what is going on here) is not up to my standards.

It is two separate thoughts.