when has someone gone too far?

[Kelly]

Eh, this is a tough one. I have mixed feelings about it. Hotel lobbies ARE public places and yea, they could use a back entrance but I, personally, am hesitant to rush up to one of the band members in a hotel lobby. After running into Stevie in the Atlanta Four Seasons, I decided not to approach her. It was 1:00 AM in the morning and I knew she had just flown in from a show in Nashville. She was in very casual clothes, hair all askew, makeup every which way and I thought it was inappropriate to bother her when she obviously wanted to get upstairs and relax. Plus she was surrounded by her posse and I doubt they would have allowed it.

Lindsey..I do not think he minds the attention. I think he likes it to some extent but again, I personally, would not bother him more than once in a lobby. If I ran into him, I would definatley walk up, say hello, tell him how hot he is and ask for a picture. That would be enough. There would be no need to go back to another lobby. I would feel like he would think I was nuts if I "ran into" him again.

Restaurants, homes, funerals...completely and totally inappropriate. I think it was Tower who mentioned how spooky and scary it must be to be a celebrity trying to deal with obsessed fans. I agree and many celebrities, Stevie included, are quite scared of what they perceive to be obsessed fans. I would never want to do anything that would cross that line in Stevie's or her securities mind. Remember that story from the Atlantic City show that Marissa and I told? About the guy who Stevie saw during the beginning of the show and went off to Waddy about him? She was waving her arms all around and within 1.3 seconds Waddy had informed Marcus, who was then down in the audience yanking the guy out of the row. So, Stevie was afraid enough of this guy that he was thrown right out of the show, three songs in. (we all could tell Stevie was freaked out by this guy, just by the way she was looking at him and reacted to him) Marcus picked him out in a row full of fans in less then ten seconds so her security was familiar with this guy as well. There is definately a down side to fame and although most fans mean well and only want to say hello, a few bad apples ruin it for the whole bunch.