Romantic or No?

[CelticGypsy]

Dreammms, that was a lovely story. Thanks for sharing it


1) Do you believe in love at first sight? No, I think it is lust or natural attraction for that person in the beginning. Love takes time. It happens once you know all the good/bad things about that person and still want to be with them

2) If given the choice of 1 year in love with the man or woman you’ve always wanted, after which time you would be alone for the remainder of your life (or) 50 years in a good relationship, but with little passion, which would you choose? I would choose 1 year of being in love with the person I always wanted.

3) Describe your ideal mate. Have you ever come close to finding this person?
He is tall, has blonde hair (ok, he use to), very intelligent, funny, kind, loving, generous, thoughtful, hard worker, good father, good provider, lover, ect.....I married him

4) Do you believe in “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” or do you prefer to “play it safe”? It is better to have loved.

5) On a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being the highest), rate how important sex is to you in a relationship? Frequency, quality or both? Probably a 5. Quality is more important. When you get older, it won't matter that much

6) Have you ever written a poem or a song for someone you loved? Yes.

7) Destiny has paid you a visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. The hitch is, he or she is in a relationship or married already. Do you go for it or move on? I could never, never ruin someone's relationship or marriage. I would definitely move on and find someone for myself.


8) Destiny has paid you another visit and introduced you to the man or woman you could see yourself loving for the rest of your life. However, you find out that this person has 6 months to live. Do you go for it or avoid the ultimate pain this relationship will cause you? I would want to spend 6 months with someone that I truely loved and cared for.


9) Put the following four relationship characteristics in your order of preference (1 being the highest, 4 the lowest): Communication. Sex. Trust. Wealth.
1. Communication, if you have this, you will have the others
2. Trust
3. Sex
4. Wealth


10) Would you ever marry for money? I have dated people who had money. They were boring and snobs. I married a guy that had nothing when we first met. He turned out to be more fun and more adventurous than the rich guys


11) Would you die for the person you love? Yes.

12) Do you see yourself as a faithful lover or one who might be prone to stray? Always faithful.

13) How many times have you been in love? A few times but I married the love of my life.

14) How many times do you feel a person can love in a lifetime (with different partners)? Maybe three times.

15) Do you believe it is possible and even probable, to be in love with two people at the same time? Possible and it can happen especially when you are engaged. haha

16) What is the one thing you must have in a relationship and cannot compromise on or give up? Communication and trust

17) What is the one thing you will not tolerate in a relationship? I cannot stand dishonest people.

18) Do you believe that saying or hearing the words “I love you” on a daily basis is necessary in a relationship? It is not necessary. Actions speak louder than words in a relationship.

19) Do you believe in destiny and soul mates or do you feel it is all the luck of the draw or random? I believe in fate or destiny and it does happen.

20) How many soul mates does one person have in a lifetime? Have you found yours? If not, do you feel sure you will?

I think a friend/parent/child can be a soulmate. When it comes to lovers/spouses I really don't think it happens that much. I need someone that agrees with me on important issues like how we raise our children or want similar goals as a family but if he thought like me and agreed with me all the time, I would be totally bored with him. Who wants to marry someone like themselves I have been married for almost 26 yrs and I am glad I married someone totally different from me but always put me first in his life and vice versa