~ Maid of Honor ~ advice thread

[jannieC]

I just did my last duty as a MOH last year (I mean come on, at 36 I should think those days were OVER). Anyway, you have to help host the shower, yes you have to get her a gift, you have to pay for your dress and shoes. Yes, I think you should have a little say in the dress, if she's a nice person. Seriously though, you two don't even speak and she asked you to be her maid of honor? Gah. Wear whatever shoes you want- you're doing this girl a big favor, if you ask me.