TMI thread. Discussion of sensitive ADULT issues/triggers. Enter with awareness! - Page 86

HejiraNYC · #**1276** 03-31-2011, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by louielouie2000

I used to get that a lot back in the days when I was single and meeting people from online. Another one of my favs comments? "You're so good looking for a redhead!" I STILL don't know whether to feel insulted or flattered by that one.

Speaking of hard to get good personal pics... "x" pics are the worst about this.

First off, thanks y'all for the kind words. Again, I just want to emphasize that I am not insecure. I just preferred to stay under the radar.

I get these backhanded compliments all the time. You are so ______ for an Asian. I'm like, wha....? Am I supposed to be flattered by that? It just makes me nauseous thinking about the popularly-held preconceived notions about Asian people. I mean, admittedly... there is a little grain of truth to some of it. But it's not a compliment when you are slamming an entire segment of the population at the same time.

HejiraNYC · #**1277** 03-31-2011, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by vivfox

Umm, can I just say, 'major hottie!' I would totally "do you."

I learned something tonight from all of you. I learned that the term Oriental is politicly incorrect. I honestly had no idea that Asian is the correct term, so I thank all of you for being my teachers.

Thanks Viv!

It's been a pleasure "learnin' ya." But please note that "oriental" is still perfectly fine when it comes to objects- rugs, furniture, cuisine, etc.

GODDESS6 · #**1278** 03-31-2011, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy?

after ALL these years!!!~ it's awesome to see you

~

jannieC · #**1279** 03-31-2011, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

But please note that "oriental" is still perfectly fine when it comes to objects- rugs, furniture, cuisine, etc.

Hee- this made me chuckle.

It *is* nice to put a face to the words/name. Glad to see you!

camchristo · #**1280** 03-31-2011, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy?

I've definitely seen a picture of you and I know I've never met you. The picture you posted was exactly how I remembered you looking in the picture.

skcin · #**1281** 03-31-2011, 09:52 AM

^ I'm with Cammie. Maybe it a shot of you before a Stevie or Mac show? With another fan? Did they post it? I know I've seen you before & we've never met.

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Originally Posted by LikeAWillow

We grew up five minutes away from each other, and I just have to chime in that I think our "tolerance" is not necessarily a good thing. When you teach a child to be tolerant of someone else, you're teaching that child that someone's race and sexuality are something that you have to accept. The wording makes it seem like their differences are a problem, but like the good little white people we are, it's a problem we can pride ourselves on overcoming. I will be such a happy woman when we stop being satisfied with being tolerant and aim towards acting like decent human beings to other decent human beings.

Good points.

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Originally Posted by CreepingDeath

My hair as been blond in the past, but never curly. And I swear on all that is holy (Stevie) I have never posted a picture of myself online. Not just the Ledge, but any message board.

Maybe you saw me at a concert. I would have been high school age, though...

Nope. I must have you confused with someone else.

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

OMG, THAT'S NOT ME!!! No, no, no, no... I just used a random image from Google to underscore the Facepalm-worthy comment. Ugh.

Hahaha.

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy?

Yup, that's you alright.

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Originally Posted by CreepingDeath

For a little while, when he first joined, I used to think dissention was a woman.

I still think he's a woman.

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Originally Posted by holidayroad

For a lot of years, I lived in Northern KY, a bridge away from Ohio. I moved South (Georgia, Alabama) because my husband is from here. Let me tell you, Southerns may be 'friendly', but only if you are 'like them'. I've met a lot of people here that are just not good people at all.

Ever hear Miranda Lambert's "I'm Just Like, You....only pretty." ?

Let's get back to TMI!

Favorite sexual position?

fumidesigns · #**1282** 03-31-2011, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by skcin

Let's get back to TMI!

Favorite sexual position?

doggy. God didn't give me this butt for nothing.

markolas · #**1283** 03-31-2011, 10:44 AM

Whether I'm giving or getting: penetratee on his back with his legs on the penetrator's shoulders. I'm also a fan of rubbing schlongs in kind of a lesbian scissoring position. F*#$ing in that position is also good, but it can get uncomfortable after a while.

skcin · #**1284** 03-31-2011, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by fumidesigns

doggy. God didn't give me this butt for nothing.

HA!

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Originally Posted by markolas

Whether I'm giving or getting: penetratee on his back with his legs on the penetrator's shoulders. I'm also a fan of rubbing schlongs in kind of a lesbian scissoring position. F*#$ing in that position is also good, but it can get uncomfortable after a while.

Apparently, The Amazing Butterfly?

I don't read cosmo, btw, but I'm on lunch @ work & didn't want to risk clicking on a porn site, so this is the best list I could find at the moment.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...y-sex-position

My husband's a fan of that as well - with me; not with dudes.

This one's good too, but on a couch: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...g-sex-position

Reach For The Heavens is good, with woman on back OR stomach. Sounds like it wouldn't work, but it does - really well. Esp. for chicks who can't come in other positions.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...s-sex-position

fumidesigns · #**1285** 03-31-2011, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by skcin

HA!

Apparently, The Amazing Butterfly?

I don't read cosmo, btw, but I'm on lunch @ work & didn't want to risk clicking on a porn site, so this is the best list I could find at the moment.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...y-sex-position

My husband's a fan of that as well - with me; not with dudes.

This one's good too, but on a couch: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...g-sex-position

Reach For The Heavens is good, with woman on back OR stomach. Sounds like it wouldn't work, but it does - really well. Esp. for chicks who can't come in other positions.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love...s-sex-position

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm a must try!!!!!!

Christopher · #**1286** 03-31-2011, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by HejiraNYC

Ugh... y'all have forced me out of the closet... Happy?

Yes, very happy!

It's great to see you, I always look forward to your posts and insight on this board. For me, you add much needed well thought out, balanced perspective from the running with scissors mob mentality that can crop up ever so often.

So whether I agree or not, you come across as a wealth of knowledge that is valued. And I must say, also being a person of color, it's so nice to see (here) and in the "Post A Picture of Yourself" thread, that The Ledge has so much diversity, in ethnicity, in demographic, in sexual orientation, etc. etc., Not exactly a revelation! But refreshing nevertheless.

HomerMcvie · #**1287** 03-31-2011, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by holidayroad

For a lot of years, I lived in Northern KY, a bridge away from Ohio. I moved South (Georgia, Alabama) because my husband is from here. Let me tell you, Southerns may be 'friendly', but only if you are 'like them'. I've met a lot of people here that are just not good people at all.

Yeah, I can see that. Fortunately for me, I have the gift on "blend". Country club or hillbilly honkytonk, rich or poor folk,.....I don't recall ever not being accepted...

(I am embarrassed typing that, but it's true)

HomerMcvie · #**1288** 03-31-2011, 01:28 PM

Face to face, whether that's missionary, or knees on the headboard(is that technically still missionary?). I like to see who I'm doing.....plus, as the world's biggest kissing lover, doggy doesn't really allow for that.

If it's a marathon, I might finally opt for lying on my back....let them do all the work!

CreepingDeath · #**1289** 03-31-2011, 02:42 PM

Should I be seeing these things?

My mother sent me to Catholic school, even though we weren't Catholic. She said I needed the discipline that only the nuns could provide.

There's still part of that blushing school girl in me, I guess. I'm not a total prude, though. You know what they say about the quiet ones...

ButterCookie · #**1290** 03-31-2011, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by CreepingDeath

Should I be seeing these things?

My mother sent me to Catholic school, even though we weren't Catholic. She said I needed the discipline that only the nuns could provide.

There's still part of that blushing school girl in me, I guess. I'm not a total prude, though. You know what they say about the quiet ones...

I was sent to Catholic school, too. It turned me into a loud mouthed little jezebel!