The end is nigh....

Gypsy-Rhiannon · #1 02-19-2007, 06:37 PM

... just thought I'd let anyone who is interested know that my hubby and I are seperating. After a hellish week when he came home unannounced from his work abroad, I told him that we can't go on like this and I no longer want to be with him. He was a git for most of the week but was like the guy I love on the Friday before he left to go back to work. This of course, has screwed my head even more! The house is for sale as it's ridiculously expensive and the plan as of now is to find a smaller, cheaper house for me and the kids. I really hope that I have the strngth to see this through because ultimately we have grown apart and we just don't make each other happy. It's just hard when you've been with someone for so long!

LikeAWillow · #2 02-19-2007, 06:53 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this Pip but I know you're strong enough to make it through. I know it isn't worth much but my thoughts really will be with you, honey.

estranged4life · #3 02-19-2007, 06:56 PM

Just hang in there my friend. I can imagine how hard it must be for you at this time.

michelle2677 · #4 02-19-2007, 06:59 PM

My thoughts are definitely with you and your family. You have to do what makes you happy and what you feel is best. I know its hard now, but i imagine its a bit of a relief as well. You will get through it

carrie721 · #5 02-19-2007, 07:01 PM

pip, i'm so sorry. i read this on LJ this morning. i'll be thinking of you and your family, and you've got the support of all the ledgies behind you.

AliceLover · #6 02-19-2007, 07:03 PM

So sorry to hear this Pip. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Feel better honey!

trackaghost · #7 02-19-2007, 07:04 PM

I'm really sorry Pip. Hope you're okay.

skcin · #8 02-19-2007, 07:05 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this, Pip. But you need to do what's best for you & your kids.

Gypsy-Rhiannon · #9 02-19-2007, 07:09 PM

Thanks everyone. I'm sure it will all work out ok in the end

GODDESS6 · #10 02-19-2007, 08:28 PM

my heart most definitely goes out to you pip~ my wish for you is to find happiness & hope~ i will be thinking of you

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Musicman408 · #11 02-19-2007, 08:38 PM

Pip, I couldn't imagine. I am soooo sorry to hear this, but make sure you do what you feel that you need to do. Whatever that might be.....

Take Care

gldstwmn · #12 02-19-2007, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gypsy-Rhiannon

I'm sure it will all work out ok in the end

It always does. You've got to do what's in your heart. Life is short.

sara1998 · #13 02-19-2007, 08:40 PM

I'm glad you're smart enough to realize that you have to please yourself before you can please anyone else. Keeping a marriage together for the sake of the other mate or the children is the worst thing you could do. Making yourself happy will ultimately make your kids happier in the long run. I wish you much happiness, and lots of luck. Being a single mother is no easy job.

bretonbanquet · #14 02-19-2007, 08:42 PM

Lots of good advice here

Good luck going forward, we're all thinking of you

Livia · #15 02-19-2007, 09:12 PM

So sorry to hear about this - you're a tough gal and I know you'll get through it just fine. Sounds like you are doing what's best for everyone involved.

We're here for you...

~*~*~Take on the situation, but not the torment...you know it's not as bad as it seems~*~*~