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DavidMn · #16 10-12-2006, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

I don't know, this hot girl hit on me on Sat and for a second...

WHOA!!!!!!

estranged4life · #17 10-12-2006, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DavidMn

EVIL BREEDER!!!!!

that is my religious view...Hehehehe!!!

Actually, I prefer none as my religion

estranged4life · #18 10-12-2006, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by strandinthewind

Yes, and I am pulling your leg

I was being sarcastic (Not having a good morning)

DavidMn · #19 10-12-2006, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by estranged4life

I was being sarcastic (Not having a good morning)

At least he didnt say the third leg.....

DavidMn · #20 10-12-2006, 12:39 PM

Ok, I have a question for the lesbians out there. I've noticed an interesting phenomenon with lesbians that doesnt occur neraly as much among gay men. 2 ladies will be out together wherever and if someone goes up to one to talk, the other girlfriend freaks and like tells the person to back off. I know this doesnt happen all the time, but I was curious as to why it does?

skcin · #21 10-12-2006, 12:42 PM

^ Cuz lots of girls are catty insecure bitches, David. Lesbians included.

DavidMn · #22 10-12-2006, 12:44 PM

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^ Cuz lots of girls are catty insecure bitches, David. Lesbians included.

Well, us men can be that way too. We're certainly not immune.

michelle2677 · #23 10-12-2006, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

I don't know, this hot girl hit on me on Sat and for a second...

yeah..that happened to me awhile back. Except I was dancing, she came up and was dancing behind me. She was drunk, fell, and took me down with her. That was the beginning and end of my lesbian days.

DavidMn · #24 10-12-2006, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by michelle2677

yeah..that happened to me awhile back. Except I was dancing, she came up and was dancing behind me. She was drunk, fell, and took me down with her. That was the beginning and end of my lesbian days.

Thats friggin hilarious!

chiliD · #25 10-12-2006, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by estranged4life

I'm in the super minority, straight & married

{raises hand} Chalk up another one here in that demographic.

DrummerDeanna · #26 10-12-2006, 01:04 PM

There are a couple of lesbians on here - or maybe just one since Hillary left.

I hate labels. I've dated women and had some very meaningful relationships, I've dated men and had some very meaningful relationships.

For all intents and purposes I guess I'm "bi" but I HATE that term. I just follow my heart

That said, it's been over 3 years since any woman has captured my attention. My last experience with a woman was horrible. It left me shattered, broken and just spent. So I sort of closed myself off to that for a long time.

But I agree Carrie that when people talk about "gay" they are mostly referring to men. There was a story on NPR's Fresh Air this week about the Christian ex-gay movement - anyway - not one mention of women. None. It was all about men. What's up with that?

Anyway...I've not dated anyone in over 2 years - so basically I'm in some weird place right now - but I'm open to meeting anyone who is honest, loyal and just a good person with a good heart - man or woman, I don't care.

That said, I am really really freaked out by butch lesbians

I mean really. They freak me out.

DavidMn · #27 10-12-2006, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

There are a couple of lesbians on here - or maybe just one since Hillary left.

I hate labels. I've dated women and had some very meaningful relationships, I've dated men and had some very meaningful relationships.

For all intents and purposes I guess I'm "bi" but I HATE that term. I just follow my heart

That said, it's been over 3 years since any woman has captured my attention. My last experience with a woman was horrible. It left me shattered, broken and just spent. So I sort of closed myself off to that for a long time.

But I agree Carrie that when people talk about "gay" they are mostly referring to men. There was a story on NPR's Fresh Air this week about the Christian ex-gay movement - anyway - not one mention of women. None. It was all about men. What's up with that?

Anyway...I've not dated anyone in over 2 years - so basically I'm in some weird place right now - but I'm open to meeting anyone who is honest, loyal and just a good person with a good heart - man or woman, I don't care.

That said, I am really really freaked out by butch lesbians

I mean really. They freak me out.

That's the way you should be. Always be true to yourself I say,

DrummerDeanna · #28 10-12-2006, 01:19 PM

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That's the way you should be. Always be true to yourself I say,

Indeed - but there are a lot of people who do not believe in bisexuality - they think it's a farce.

Well I can honestly say that I have been attracted to both men and women. I have wanted both in both emotional and sexual ways

There is another reason I hate the term "bi" though - it's what it has become. It seems as though when someone is bi it's a ticket to be with anyone whenever wherever, regardless of you is hurt by it.

I knew this man in my hometown - he was living in a threesome, with a woman and a man. To each their own - but when he explained it he said, "well I was married to a woman, but I'm bi - so naturally I also needed a man."

Um. no. that is so not how it works!! No wonder we get a bad rap in society.

When I was with my boyfriend - I was with him. I didn't also need a woman - that is ludicrous to me.

I don't know - I'm not really sure how to explain what I'm trying to get at....

SuzeQuze · #29 10-12-2006, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DrummerDeanna

Indeed - but there are a lot of people who do not believe in bisexuality - they think it's a farce.

Well I can honestly say that I have been attracted to both men and women. I have wanted both in both emotional and sexual ways

There is another reason I hate the term "bi" though - it's what it has become. It seems as though when someone is bi it's a ticket to be with anyone whenever wherever, regardless of you is hurt by it.

I knew this man in my hometown - he was living in a threesome, with a woman and a man. To each their own - but when he explained it he said, "well I was married to a woman, but I'm bi - so naturally I also needed a man."

Um. no. that is so not how it works!! No wonder we get a bad rap in society.

When I was with my boyfriend - I was with him. I didn't also need a woman - that is ludicrous to me.

I don't know - I'm not really sure how to explain what I'm trying to get at....

No, it makes sense when you think of sexuality as a continuum as opposed to one or the other. And monogamy as the least complicated and most intimate way to carry out a relationship. The other ways just don't fly.

DavidMn · #30 10-12-2006, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SuzeQuze

No, it makes sense when you think of sexuality as a continuum as opposed to one or the other. And monogamy as the least complicated and most intimate way to carry out a relationship. The other ways just don't fly.

Amen to that sistah.