Stevie Nicks says relationship with ex Lindsey Buckingham remains tense

[bombaysaffires]

Originally Posted by SteveMacD

I though that was a Johnny Cash song (unless you're talking about a different song.

she wrote about them in Blue Denim for one ("blue-grey eyes")

[Iktomi]

Originally Posted by bombaysaffires

see, I'm not so sure she really promoted the band with this, other than the very literal "putting their name out there" again. The walk-away impression one gets from the piece is that the band is really a big clusterf*ck of tensions and resentments by these people of Stevie… her beauty, her success, blah blah blah. What it leaves you with is a sense of what a wonderful person she is for sticking around so long when clearly out of all of them she could most easily have walked away and stayed famous. I mean even the comment about 'Lindsey would have been the star in any other band'-- while at first seeming like a bit of a mark against Stevie-- in its own way says he's better than most other rock players but even he's not better than our Stevie, who has this better "package" of stage presence, looks, talent etc etc. That can't contribute in any way (even if some think it's true) to harmony within the band. We all know that's Lindsey's bugaboo--- being overlooked for his 'substance'' by Stevie's 'flash'. And look, now he's being petty and banging on the wall like an old fart because the music's too loud…. again, not a great image that lingers in readers' minds. Lindsey's not stupid, and he's a bit overly sensitive about this topic, so this article's presentation of him can't really help internal band politics now can it? (with the caveat that maybe if he knew there was a RS reporter there he could have behaved accordingly, i.e. not given them any ammunition)

Let's face it, to borrow a quote from American politics used when judging presidential candidates.. "who would you rather have a beer with?" well, when Stevie does interviews and shows everyone her funny, charming side, like in this article, and we see Lindsey as a grouchy old poop who still seems to hold a grudge over sh&t from 30 years ago, most (casual) readers will think, "I'd rather hang out with HER." And that's the point of articles like this. To boost her brand.

Just personally speaking, I do get the impression that she might have been trying to get the audience to sympathize with her...in case something does happen to the band in regards to an album? I don't know, but the article doesn''t really portray the other members in a neutral light, nor in a positive one.

However, I thought the part about Tom Petty was a little hilarious. He seems to be more of a proponent of the band over their solo careers...not exactly in line perhaps with the Stevie solo push, perhaps?

All that being said, personally, I do get the impression that she's still committed to the band. In an article that's about her, she does most of her talking about being in a band and while it's not all positive, she does seem to reinforce her commitment to the band with the Jefferson Airplane and the "we choose to stay..." comments. I think Nicks knows her brand isn't bigger than Fleetwood Mac's, and while she herself is a successful solo artist and a pioneer for women in rock, the band itself has almost reached immortality (in terms of the greatest bands of all-time). She herself said that she was in a band just as successful as the men she dated and that sounds like something she's proud of, and proud to be a part of.

Perhaps she's promoting herself or her perspective, or establishing her place in rock, but it's not without acknowledging the role the band played in her career and life. She seems to really prize that identity as a woman with a solo career, but somebody that is also a part of a legendary band...something that many women today really can't claim. She is different in that sense.

[elle]

Originally Posted by WildHearted

Anything that keeps their name and success as an entity relevant & in people's minds is good promotion for the band.

You can't promote a product that doesn't exist.... there is no new album to push, at the moment.

that's only if you think no publicity is bad publicity.

and, plenty of bands have interviews in RS and other magazines talking about and building buzz for the albums they are working on and intending to release in the future.

Originally Posted by bombaysaffires

see, I'm not so sure she really promoted the band with this, other than the very literal "putting their name out there" again. The walk-away impression one gets from the piece is that the band is really a big clusterf*ck of tensions and resentments by these people of Stevie… her beauty, her success, blah blah blah. What it leaves you with is a sense of what a wonderful person she is for sticking around so long when clearly out of all of them she could most easily have walked away and stayed famous. I mean even the comment about 'Lindsey would have been the star in any other band'-- while at first seeming like a bit of a mark against Stevie-- in its own way says he's better than most other rock players but even he's not better than our Stevie, who has this better "package" of stage presence, looks, talent etc etc. That can't contribute in any way (even if some think it's true) to harmony within the band.

yes. it almost looks like she's promoting not the band but the dysfunction in the band and building up her position so she has more leverage in some future inside-band stand-off - since apparently she's so great and they are so petty.

Originally Posted by bombaysaffires

Let's face it, to borrow a quote from American politics used when judging presidential candidates.. "who would you rather have a beer with?" well, when Stevie does interviews and shows everyone her funny, charming side, like in this article, and we see Lindsey as a grouchy old poop who still seems to hold a grudge over sh&t from 30 years ago, most (casual) readers will think, "I'd rather hang out with HER." And that's the point of articles like this. To boost her brand.

hey, maybe she sent Karen over to impersonate Lindsey and bang on the wall to try make him look grumpy? i mean Lindsey himself never shows up or actually talks in this piece it's always either her or Karen or Waddy putting words in his mouth or describing his actions.

Originally Posted by Iktomi

Just personally speaking, I do get the impression that she might have been trying to get the audience to sympathize with her...in case something does happen to the band in regards to an album? I don't know, but the article doesn't really portray the other members in a neutral light, nor in a positive one.

However, I thought the part about Tom Petty was a little hilarious. He seems to be more of a proponent of the band over their solo careers...not exactly in line perhaps with the Stevie solo push, perhaps?

yeah, i think the album and intra-band stand-off regarding it or directions of the band is what the underlying motif might be... either that or she just likes to talk positively about herself and trash about others, in general.

[WildHearted]

Perhaps she's promoting herself or her perspective, or establishing her place in rock, but it's not without acknowledging the role the band played in her career and life.

Exactly. The article tells you they've had a sold out tour, which indicates not only that "Hey, they're still together!" but that they're still together AND people still want to hear them play [so they must still be good.] And with the quotes by Petty and Christine, reminds you that Stevie Nicks wouldn't be anywhere without FM & that they're better as a group.

I think claims that it portrays the band in a negative light are a bit exaggerated. Does the article portray Fleetwood Mac as a group of individuals who are best friends and exist completely harmoniously? No, certainly not.... but that's precisely in-line with what they've established as their whole shtick over the past forty years. They perpetuate that love-hate-fighting-fornicating fiasco every time they do anything and it's a constant focus of their publicity. Why? Because it sells. Nothing in this article is new information - it's not changing anyone's perception of the band. It's just reaffirming that "those crazy kids are still going at it!"

(Well, I guess Lindsey banging on the wall is something new. But isn't it way more interesting to read that Lindsey banged on Stevie's wall to get her to turn Nelly Furtado down than say, Lindsey knocked politely on the door to ask Stevie if she wants some tea? It's hilarious and makes them seem like real people with a real relationship... Stevie seems obliviously annoying, and Lindsey seems (understandably) annoyed BY her. That's pretty much their dynamic in a nutshell.)

[WildHearted]

Originally Posted by elle

that's only if you think no publicity is bad publicity.

Yes, I do think no publicity is bad publicity, in this case.

Would you rather the entire story have gone by without a single mention of Fleetwood Mac or any of it's [to quote the article] Non-Stevie members?

That would have been something to be concerned about.

And re: promoting the alleged new album.... it's been clear for pretty much ever that Stevie's the one holding back from making new music with FM, regardless of whether or not she ends up inevitably doing it. So her using a "Stevie Nicks"-centered article to push a potential FM project spearheaded by other members that she wasn't interested in was never something I had on the list of "things that have a chance in hell of happening," therefore I was not disappointed when, well, it didn't. I understand the frustration there, 'cause I've had it myself, but...it is what it is.

[bombaysaffires]

Originally Posted by Say You Will

. Stevie just gets caught up in the tragic heroine stuff. And he's long moved on



Will she ever forgive him for getting married?

oh I think in a way it's even better that he's married... now it's a REALLY tragic, romantic love-you-but-can't-ever-be-together story.

[Say You Will]

Originally Posted by bombaysaffires

oh I think in a way it's even better that he's married... now it's a REALLY tragic, romantic love-you-but-can't-ever-be-together story.

Maybe they'll do an album about it..

Oh that's right she doesn't want to do another album.

[Regina]

I used to enjoy reading tons of articles about them. Kind of trying to work out their complex relationship via the knowledge obtained by my minor in psychology about a hundred years ago.

Then, I did figure it out. They're both nuts.

And I don't really need to read those articles anymore.

Although, I will buy a few for the pretty pictures

[teedeerocks]

Originally Posted by Regina

I used to enjoy reading tons of articles about them. Kind of trying to work out their complex relationship via the knowledge obtained by my minor in psychology about a hundred years ago.

Then, I did figure it out. They're both nuts.

And I don't really need to read those articles anymore.

Although, I will buy a few for the pretty pictures

Which is why it was so easy for them to fit in with this band.I don't know if you've read stories about way back when with the many crazy guitarists and affairs,but if you are bored with the current stories you should give those a whirl.Crazy from birth I'm tellin' ya....

[Macfanforever]

As to come think about it. My parents were divorced after 17 years of marriage. My late sister was the peacekeeper of the family and she got them together for the family holiday dinners and summer picnics.For 30 years after .The divorce the bickering still went on.

[David]

Originally Posted by WildHearted

They perpetuate that love-hate-fighting-fornicating fiasco every time they do anything and it's a constant focus of their publicity.

Right on. What's odd is that we ledgies are the ones who keep hoping for those relationships to turn permanently Hallmark, as if the wisdom of age and experience makes you square your shoulders and be overcome with affection for your bandmates. So we read all the interviews and watch all the activity onstage, and whenever there's something sweet going on—a compliment, a smile, a kiss—we figure that's the long-hoped-for breakthrough in the relationship. But I think the rest of the world (or at least the rest of the world that ever thinks about Fleetwood Mac) isn't bothered at all by the cattiness, the insults (they're a little more veiled the past few decades than they used to be), the refusals to participate, the demands, the passive-aggressiveness. Because that's how people behave in real life—unless they're Mr. Rogers or Judith Martin. If I think of the people I love or whom I'm close to in my life, I could never be confident that I would never again get mad at them. We get older and more nostalgic for all we've been through, but we don't stop getting mad or annoyed with one another.

Well, I guess Lindsey banging on the wall is something new. But isn't it way more interesting to read that Lindsey banged on Stevie's wall to get her to turn Nelly Furtado down than say, Lindsey knocked politely on the door to ask Stevie if she wants some tea? It's hilarious and makes them seem like real people with a real relationship... Stevie seems obliviously annoying, and Lindsey seems (understandably) annoyed BY her. That's pretty much their dynamic in a nutshell.)

You're right: that is their dynamic. That's them. But there's something fishy about that story because I can't picture those two checking in to adjoining hotel rooms on tour. In fact, doesn't Stevie generally go find her own multiple rooms (for all her girlfriends), sometimes in a different hotel?

[BlueDenimLamp]

Originally Posted by David

Right on. What's odd is that we ledgies are the ones who keep hoping for those relationships to turn permanently Hallmark, as if the wisdom of age and experience makes you square your shoulders and be overcome with affection for your bandmates. So we read all the interviews and watch all the activity onstage, and whenever there's something sweet going on—a compliment, a smile, a kiss—we figure that's the long-hoped-for breakthrough in the relationship. But I think the rest of the world (or at least the rest of the world that ever thinks about Fleetwood Mac) isn't bothered at all by the cattiness, the insults (they're a little more veiled the past few decades than they used to be), the refusals to participate, the demands, the passive-aggressiveness. Because that's how people behave in real life—unless they're Mr. Rogers or Judith Martin. If I think of the people I love or whom I'm close to in my life, I could never be confident that I would never again get mad at them. We get older and more nostalgic for all we've been through, but we don't stop getting mad or annoyed with one another.

You're right: that is their dynamic. That's them. But there's something fishy about that story because I can't picture those two checking in to adjoining hotel rooms on tour. In fact, doesn't Stevie generally go find her own multiple rooms (for all her girlfriends), sometimes in a different hotel?

I believe it was dressing rooms that were next to each other at the venue not hotel rooms and we don't know that it was actually LB "banging" and not one of his people.

"Next on the playlist is Nelly Furtado’s “Maneater”, thumping at an impressive volume. Nicks breaks into a funky, arm-waving dance from her makeup chair. Wincing slightly, she calls out to Johnston, ‘We don’t have an ice pack here do we? Because I need it.”

But her assistant had just been called out of the room on other business. “Um, Stevie?” Johnston says. “Lindsey has requested that we turn the music down.”

Nicks rolls her eyes, her expression matching the little girl’s the photograph. “OK, maybe we should go into a different tape, since he’s next door,” she says. “We can go with something that doesn’t have quite that much bang. All he’s probably hearing is the drum, like in a car. This is the first time he’s ever been next door to us. That can never happen again!”

She switches to a new playlist of singer-songwriters (Jackson Browne, Sting) and Lite FM-ish dude rock (Goo Goo Dolls, The Fray). Nicks has no fear of the uncool; She invited Kenny G to play on one of her albums, composes lyrics while listening to a New Age station on satellite radio and devoured the Twilight books by firelight, even writing a song inspired by Bella’s plight.

Nicks keeps adding her own perfect harmonies to the song on her playlist, rendering the chorus of “How to Save a Life” suddenly haunting (she thinks it’s about visiting a friend in rehab). “I never sing along to the melody,” she says. “I always go for the harmony. And that’s been since I was really little, because my granddad was a singer, and he would bring me 45s and he’d say, “You’re a harmony singer. You’re a perfect Everly Brother.” Her grandfather, A.J. Nicks, was a semipro country performer who wanted to take her on tour when she was five; her parents demurred.

After a few minutes, we hear pounding on the wall. The music still isn’t low enough. “Relations with Lindsey are exactly as they have been since we broke up,” says Nicks. “He and I will always be anatagonizing to each other, and we will always do things that will irritate each other, and we really know how to push each other’s buttons. We know exactly what to say when we really want to throw a dagger in. And I think that that’s not different now than it was when we were 20. And I don’t think it will be different when we’re 80.”

[Macfanforever]

I cant blame Lindsey with the noise complaint .Maybe he wants to get some sleep or relax and watch a movie on his TV. I lived in apartments for a good 25 plus years before I got a house I had to deal with noisy neighbors as some blast crap music in their apt or out in the parking area .I would not mind if they were playing something decent .

If Stevie was my neighbor .I probably let her get away with it.LOL..