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Originally Posted by daniellaaarisen
Just found out that a guy I was "talking to" has a wife, girlfriend AND multiple "mistresses" and he's only 23. This makes me want to be single forever.
(or date older men forever since the younger ones always suck)
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Older guys can be just as shady. A couple of years back, my lifelong best friend told me it had surfaced that her Dad had been cheating on her Mother for a decade. It was the most shocking thing imaginable. This man was a Catholic Deacon who was constantly involved in the community. He was a successful and
very family oriented businessman. He lived 2 doors down from me for most of my childhood. It turns out not only was he cheating on his drop dead gorgeous wife (who was also wholly dedicated to him, and very intelligent and hugely involved in the community herself), he was living a double life. He provided his mistress with her own apartment, he had separate bank accounts to pay for their life together, etc. Apparently his weekly overnight "business trips" were actually spent with his out of town mistress. This isn't just some dumb, horny, young guy either... he's in his mid 50s. Young men who are dogs turn into older men who are dogs.
My Stepfather's Dad did the same thing. He left his wife when they were in their 50s to shack up with some sleazy waitress for a few years. I have no idea why his wife took him back. Once a sleazeball always a sleazeball.