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Originally Posted by Tango
I don't know either of you at all, but in a fast read of this lengthy description I'm guessing perhaps he is someone that would rather do the "chasing." You're taking the whole motivation away if this is his thing. Back off. Don't do the summer house? Maybe it's not meant to be--there's billions of people in the world. But if it is, let him make the moves. You've already tried your way: "pursued him pretty actively" and it didn't go so well.
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Thanks
I'm definitely backing off. I talked to Carrie721 for awhile last night, and she's basically lived the same situation, and thinks distance really is the only answer....and I definitely agree. The whole thing is not healthy, and if we're ever going to be friends again, this pattern can't continue.
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