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Old 04-05-2011, 03:22 PM
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I'm sorry this is happening to you right now. I do feel your pain and confusion and what your heart is going through. As you get older, you'll realize that you won't be able to control everything that is happening around you. Enjoy your weekend with your friends. Don't worry so much about your mom and dad and THEIR problems.

You'll realize that your parents have fallen out of love with each other. That does happen with married couples. Marriage is really HARD work!! I have been married for 32 years, Ethan and some days it's not always roses and picnics but if the two people work together it can be pretty wonderful Your mom and dad have decided they don't want to be together and they need this time to figure things out for themselves and how to be happy again.

You're still very young and have a GREAT future ahead of you. Stop worrying about mom and dad and concentrate on yourself and fullfilling YOUR own personal dreams and goals.

I lost both of my parents and well, you'll look back and realize all they wanted was to be happy in their lives. I would do anything to have my parents back alive. My dad was a pain sometimes but you know I would love to have five minutes back to say how much I love him and hug him. Your parents are human and they will make mistakes. This is natural. No parent is perfect. Be grateful that you have your mom and dad in your life and let them find their own dreams. You may not agree with them and what they're doing but I am sure you would not want them to take any of your dreams away either. This isn't about you but about your mom and dad trying to reinvent their personal lives.

Next time you see your mom and dad, HUG them and tell them that you love them! Take care!
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