[Nikolaj]

Not trying to change anyone's minds, think as you do, of course. So, I'll just do the same.
I believe Lindsey did kick Stevie, did throw a guitar at her, no matter if it was a Les Paul or not, did choke her against the automobile the day he left Fleetwood Mac in '87- and Christine confirmed years ago that she chased LB from the stage to the dressing room when he performed the ghastly 'Rhiannon' spoof at the band's expense during a concert.
I also believe SN at times provoked Lindsey.
In the past, many years ago, I believe LB was violent against women he was involved with, yes. Much of it could have been substance abuse related, or perhaps there are issues from his childhood, abusers often have been abused or have witnessed it. I believe he got help, or changed, or SN wouldn't be working with him.
Stevie, Mick, John and Christine all have made public statements that the various instances did take place. I don't think all four of them would lie.
The man is flawed. They all are, we all are.
I know nothing. But 4 people of the 5 gave accounts very similar to each other, at very different times, over the years. LB probably has a lot on them, too. I don't think that Mick, John, Christine and Stevie all lied.