Bella,
I agree with you. It's almost a relief that someone else mentioned it because honestly, since I read David's post it's been nagging at me.
David, having been exposed to abusive situations I can honestly say that you can't and shouldn't make light, even playfully of those kinds of situations. Perhaps you don't really think anyone deserves to get hit, so I can dismiss that as a thoughtless comment. I do; however, find it a bit offensive to suggest that someone who has experienced abussive situations, and who is brave enough to express their feelings about your comments should "lighten up". Instead it would have been a perfect opportunity for you to take the high road and perhaps express regrets that anyone would have to go through that.
Bella, you are definately not alone. Thanks for helping me find my voice!
Doug
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